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The kid has measles, and I have never had them....

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So DH calls BM and asks her to keep SS this weekend because apparently this is not as easy on adults as it is on children. Well the bitch said no and DH doesn't know what to do because if he just doesn't show I am sure she will come drop him on our door step and so now he will be staying at my MIL's with SS and I will be home alone.

Looks like a lonely weekend ahead...any suggestions on how to get BM to not be such a bitch and, hello take care of her sick child?!?!?!?!?!?

rejected

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Sometimes I feel rejected by my SS. He is only 4.5 so maybe the things he does aren't intended to make me feel bad, I don't know, but it is starting to really get to me.

feeling blue...

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the kid has a hernia or something and it was hurting him and so his mom called up because the kid was crying and so DH of course gets all worried and now he is going over there to see him. i hate this and i feel bad for feeling like this and i know its my fault because i decided to get involved with him and i knew he had a kid and blah blah blah and obviously he would want to make sure his kid is ok but i dunno, knowing all of this doesnt help me in the slightest.

really really need some help here ladies...wtf just happened?

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BM just called DH up right now crying. She said she was puTting SS to bed and he said he wanted to tell her something DH had said. BM asked what and SS said that DH had been telling him to tell other people that BM and her husband were hitting SS. BM was in tears, worried they would take SS from her.

I can't WAIT for SS to go home tonight!!!

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I am soooo annoyed right now! SS4 has been in a pissy mood all day and he is getting on my last nerve. He is being rude, disrespectful, and not listening to anyone.

We went downtown about an hr ago and he refused to get out of the car. He finally gets off and starts demanding we take him w MIL. She owns a store 2 blocks away. DH says no because it's Sunday and it is her busiest day of the week. SS starts making faces and doesn't want to walk and I can tell DH is getting pissed because SS is not listening to either of us.

I thought I wanted this

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When I met DH, he and BM has NOTHING in writing and BM had DH's balls on her mantle. Slowly he started realizing her empty threats were just that -empty. He began to see how manipulative she was and stopped letting her run the show. Finally, after BM refused to hand over SS because I came w him to the pick-up, he went to see a mediator and they agreed on custody and CS.

some days are hard...

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Some days I love SS, some days I get annoyed, some days I am perfectly happy and other days I don't know how the hell I got into this mess. Sometimes we get along so well and I feel so great about our relationship and the next visit I feel like I'm back to square one. Any shred of stability I had in my life is gone.

Today was just not my day Sad

OT - Getting Kids to EAT!

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SS4 is coming to stay with us for the whole week next week (first time EVER), but I am a little worried because he is a very picky eater. DH has NO patience and gets really frustrated when SS wont eat, then SS gets in a pissy mood and it is even harder to get him to eat.

He only even eats with us on Sundays and we usually have chicken because it is his favorite and he eats that no problem, but if I have to have chicken for a week I think I might stop eating Blum 3

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