First of all I have only been married for 4 months. I have known my husband for over 25 years. He is not a bad person I just think he has horrible parenting skills. In May of this year my then 18 year old step son had to move in with us. He either quit or got kicked out of college we are unsure which. I didn't want him to move in as we were getting married that same month and I knew it would cause issues. His father said he had no place else to go so we had no choice (wrong). Anyway, he has been here for 4 months (and is now 19).