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I was so upset

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Yesterday at about 9am I hear that bad weather is headed this way and that the schools in the tricounty area were going to close at noon. I immediately call my mom to go get my daughter at her preschool. I assume that BM is going to take care of SS. I hear later that his school is not going to close early. Around 3:30pm the weather gets really bad in that area. I call his house to see if he has gotten home yet. I don't get an answer. I call DH who is sleeping at home because he is working nightshift and ask him to try to get in touch with him to make sure he is alright.

Just shows how evil she is

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I asked SS if he was going to be in the wedding, and he said yes. That is wonderful, but it is irritating that she schedules it for a weekend that we are supposed to have him and has not said one word about it to us. She has only asked us to keep him Spring Break which is the week after that. And she did not even say why, but told my mother-in-law that they were going to Hawaii. All this is no problem, I just wish she would communicate more effectively instead of just assuming that everyone is going to do as she plans. What if we had planned something for that Saturday?

This is funny and sad both.

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I picked up SS from his house yesterday, and I waited downstairs while my daughter went upstairs to look at SS's room because this is the first time she had ever been with me to pick him up (we stayed home today because she had a fever). BM and TH to-be (TH stands for third husband here) go on and on talking about their upcoming wedding and she shows a gift certificate she got as a gift from a place where she registered. Since I don't even know when the wedding is supposed to be, I go online to check out her registry. First funny thing, it's on St. Patrick's Day.

Has she changed?

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When I met my husband one year after his divorce was final, he had a four year old son, and his ex had already remarried. Our relationship with her was not very friendly, to say the least. She has since divorced again and is planning on remarrying. We have been married for five and a half years, longer than the time from when they first met to when they divorced. Things have cooled off considerably to the point where we talk civilly at baseball games and exchanges, etc., and she has even joined a church with this guy.