DH pays 300 monthly....and I thought that was too much bc SD is 14...but I am reading on some posts that DH pays up to 1,200 monthly....is this for one child? I guess I should stop complaining.

Long story short. We had a falling out over the weekend and during this time SD14 called him to say that Justin Bieber has a movie coming out. I made smart comment that she was prolly calling to tell him something she saw on I-Carly. So needless to say he was annoyed with me. I told him that I am tired of ex calling sometimes daily for stupid stuff and that I am tired of him ALWAYS saying “yes” to the both of them. Told him I don’t like that he buys his daughter 20 gifts for Xmas and 10 for my daughter. I exaggerated on the number but you know what I mean.

I have posted where my SD14 is rude and disrespectful almost always. Couple of examples....always interrupts when adults are talking...wants oodles of noodles after I prepared lovely meal....insists on wedging herself between me and her father of we are walking in a mall or something....if I wear the same sweatshirt 2 days in a row, she will make smart comment about it.......Okay so on Friday I brought her down to the basement to talk to her about her behavior. I said she wasn't in "trouble" but their are some items I want to birng to her attention.

I went ahead and deleted the original post. Just so you don't think I'm an wicked SM. SD wants to come over to our house that weekend but it's not her weekend. Yes, I wanted to have a quiet evening at home. My bio will prolly not even be home, most likely she will be out with her friends or her BF. It's just that with my DH late hours, I treasure every moment he and I get to spend time together and since it wasn't SD weekend, I felt that she should stick to the schedule.