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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 10/11/2010 - 4:08pm

I have been wondering weather bm would win when she tries to take dh back to court to make him pay for college expenses for the boys. It is not a matter of if but when. Bm is money grubby and has made it very clear she will stop at nothing to get as much money from us as she can. She tried to put it in the papers that dh has to pay half of all college for each child but dh said no and was very adamant about not having it in there, this was among a lot of other crap she wanted dh to pay for which was way more than he was making.

Bm and money

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sun, 10/10/2010 - 11:44pm

Dh and bm made an agreement that he would pay half of ss14 glasses which was just 50 bucks each. Dh told bm he would give it to her on this fri. (oct. 8th) I got my tattoo the sunday before on the 3rd. Now note here that I paid for my tattoo not dh we keep our money separate. I posted about bm getting upset about my tattoo and that I spent money on it.

Ok on fri. before dh even got off work bm texted and here is how it went at 5pm.

bm: Are you going to pay me b/c if you don;t I can't do ss11 bday?

My new tattoo and bm! GGRRR updated

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 10/08/2010 - 12:40pm

I post a while back about my dh's tat that he tattooed my name on him and I wanted to do the same but b/c of my job I didn;t think it was a good idea. Well I did it anyway and it doesn;t seem to be that big of a deal.

Plus I posted about my 2 skids that unfriended me on face book. They haven't put me back as a friend yet. dh was mad b/c after talking about it we came up with that bm had to have done it.

Anyway I posted a pic of it on face book, now I don;t care who sees it or I wouldn;t have posted it. I put it up as my profile pic.

My poor son

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 10/05/2010 - 12:14pm

I posted last week he had a date. Well it didn;t go as well as he hoped. He took her to a festival in town on sat. The girl ran into some of her friends which included a boy that they all were going to go to the movies without my son. He came home really upset.

Although when he got home he said that this girl didn;t make it out of town before her mom found out and she had to go and got grounded for what she did. Plus on the bus on her way to school yesterday she got sick and had to go home.

Well isn;t karma a b!tch?

I am lucky!!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 10/04/2010 - 9:28pm

My skids do not ignore me and they joke with me and love it. This sunday when we picked them up youngest will be 11 on wed. so I asked him what he wanted. he kept going around the bush finally I told him that we wouldn't see him before his bday and we needed to get it that night and if he rather have the money or what. He said he wanted this game so I looked it up on my phone to see how much it was and it jsut came out not even a month ago.

SOOO my kids are the ones not listening!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 09/30/2010 - 2:36pm

As I have said before we are going away this weekend for my bday and mil is to take all kids. WELLLLL my SON decided this is a great weekend to have his first date!!! He asked her out himself and set up all the plans, he has it very well planned out. He included his sis and her bf. Now I am NOT leaving a 16 and 17 year old at my house alone for the whole weekend!!! NOT gonna happen! So know what ds does he calls my mom who lives a few blocks from us and asked to stay with her so he can go on his date and he talked her into being his taxi!!!

Sm doing too much!

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Thu, 09/09/2010 - 10:44am

I have heard a lot of moms being frustrated over the fact that they have to take care of their step kids way too much.

This is what I have done and it worked for me. I would leave and make dh handle everything. I even went a whole day without making food for them. (I would feed the kids if they were young and can't do it themselves). Anyway, I also stopped saying anything to the skids about anything unless it effected me or my kids. I didn't help them with anything. Didn't say a word to them.

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