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My new tattoo and bm! GGRRR updated

purpledaisies's picture

I post a while back about my dh's tat that he tattooed my name on him and I wanted to do the same but b/c of my job I didn;t think it was a good idea. Well I did it anyway and it doesn;t seem to be that big of a deal.

Plus I posted about my 2 skids that unfriended me on face book. They haven't put me back as a friend yet. dh was mad b/c after talking about it we came up with that bm had to have done it.

Anyway I posted a pic of it on face book, now I don;t care who sees it or I wouldn;t have posted it. I put it up as my profile pic.

BM texted dh and this is the convo.

bm: SS14 showed me purpledaisies tat and I can;t afford things like that.

dh: Really since you don't have a job seems to me that you can go on a lot of concerts out of state and I fund those since all you get is my CS.

Bm: sorry that wasn;t supposed to go to you but if I was to get one I wouldn;t be putting someones name on me especially since it won't last.

Dh: First this is none of your business but yeah we will last till death due us part.

Bm: Sorry you are right none of my business.

Ok anyone else see what happened there?? I mean first it makes me mad that she is putting the kids in this by saying that ss14 showed her my tat, please he wouldn;t have seen it since we aren't friends and he wouldn;t have looked me up he may not even know we aren;t friends any more. SHE looked me up!!! Second she meant for that to go to dh she has done that in the past. I mean she didn;t get the response she wanted and tried to back peddle. She wanted dh to "defend" us spending the money. Besides I spent my money, I worked my butt off for that money!!! I want to post something on face book so bad but I ahven;t yet b/c I want to be an adult about it but still I want to SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD!!!!

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purpledaisies's picture

I just posted on face book..."I work hard for my money and can spend it the way I want. Those of you that don;t work should it is liberating" }:)

I know I shouldn;t have but I did. I'm bad. hanging head in shame.

skylarksms's picture

Haha - gotta love it!

The only people that should get offended are the ones it pertains to! Truth hurts, huh?

LizzieA's picture

What kills me is these BMs think they are entitled to an opinion about how DHs spend their money. Hello, he is not your husband and you don't have say over 100% of his earnings!

purpledaisies's picture

Thanks ladies I am just amazed that bm still thinks she has a the right to tell my dh how to spend his money. Or that she even thinks she has a right to say anything at all about what we do or don't do. I am lucky in that my dh has always put her in her place when it comes to these things.