I am so frustrated right now!! I took on a project that I thought I could handle but the person who was doing it before me did such a piss poor job for so long I feel like I am drowning. I could spend a week just on getting caught up in this mess alone! Who has time for that???

Ugh, sorry I needed to bitch for a second!

So the newest thing that my ex is trying to do is accuse my of "endangering our children by constantly involving them in high risk activities".

Now what are these high risk activities, you ask?? Well, we are going skiing this weekend. Also, sports. Sports are bad. And lets not forget that we (me and dh) took the boys para sailing last summer on vacation. BS and SS were old enough and met the height and weight requirements so DH took the boys up. DD wasn't big enough so we hung out on the boat and watched. Yep, this is why I am a terrible mother.

I am livid at my MIL right now. I am completely over the way that she thinks she can criticize me over everything I do. I did not invite SIL to BS8's bday dinner last night. SIL rarely shows and is to rude to even let you know she won't be there. If she does show she is a total bitch the entire time. Her kids have the most horrendous behavior ever. I wanted my son's birthday to be about my son. Not SIL. So MIL cancels 3 hours before dinner because she is watching SIL's kids. One had girl scouts so MIL was watching the other 2.

BS7's birthday is fast approaching. At first he said that he wanted this stupid expensive toy and the deal was that since the thing was $350 he wasn't getting that and a big bday party. Well, now, a week out he has changed his mind. He wants a party... Well, thanks to the Christmas break and the fact that we have one of those lovely "broken homes and alternating weekends" I can't pull it off for the weekend before his bday. The next weekend that we have all the kids we are taking them all skiing and have already booked the trip.