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ex-SS is a mean little shit

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So, stb exAHH is still sending his spawn to my kids before school program. Yesterday on the bus on the way to school SS starts running his mouth to my kids, telling them that AHH is taking me to court and I am going to jail for 5 years for "stealing his stuff". Then he tells them that his grampa (who adores my kids) is going to come kill us in our sleep because we left them and he used to be in the Army so he can find us.

OT- I am getting a promotion!

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My boss was so impressed with the way I handled everything in this separation that I am getting a promotion. We knew it would be someone in the department but it is me!! She said that I never let it effect my job and that I always kept my wits about me. It is 5-6 months out before I will officially be in the position but it is going to be about 20K more a year and I am SO FREAKING HAPPY!!!

Officially in my new apartment

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Hello and Happy Mother's Day to all of you amazing mothers!

I just wanted to give a quick update to tell y'all that I am out of the house and have spent the first night in our apartment! My kids love it, my brother and sister just keep telling me that it has good vibes, and I was pleasantly surprised at how big it actually is. All of my furniture looks great and doesn't feel squished! Smile

I am an Update blog hog!

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OK, so I e-mailed MIL and all my paperwork was sitting on my porch within an hour, my BFF went and picked it up for me Blum 3

I sold my wedding set a lunch today- cha ching!!

He cut off my cell phone (it is a line on his company's plan) but he forgot that I am an administrator on that account, so I turned it back on }:)

I have to get a new plan tonight but I just found it funny that I was like... um no, you can't cancel me right now!

QUESTION!!!

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Ok, so I went back to stay at the house last night. I did a quick inventory of everything and found that he took my personal files. He took all my old tax return info, my birth certificate, my kids Social Security Cards, Their Birth Certs, all of my CS documents, my custody paperwork... everything!

Update on leaving to go to my moms

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I talked to the police. The officer told me that he believes I will be granted an emergency protective order. They last for 3 days and would grant me the house. The officer told me to get everything I want in the house out of there within those 3 days. He said if he stepped foot on the property during that time that they would 100% take him to jail. I am meeting the magistrate today at 4 to hopefully get the protective order.

Posting from my mom's house

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Well, saying it was a crazy night puts it mildly. AHH came home on a rampage telling me to get the F out of HIS house SS was cheering him on of course. He said he was going to keep all my furniture and i would be lucky to get my clothes. He started threatening to my kids that he would make sure they never saw me again, so I had a hysterical 6 yr old little girl on my hands. I called my mom and we left the house.

As requested - stupid sh!t my a-hole hubs says

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Sitting in the living room tonight AHH tells me that ss has been recommended for summer school again. Great I said, it is good for him to stay active in school. Then AHH told me ss told his teacher we are getting divorced. He said that the teacher was just gushing about what a sweet boy he is and how he is just a total joy.... :?

I asked if this was the same teacher who filled out all the behavior reports. He said yes, but she gets how wonderful he is.

I said right up until he decides to try and punch her or throw a chair through her window!

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