So DH and I have a 4yr old together. I have BS14 and SS21 SD19(lives in our home and has mental disorders) and a SD14 that i have never met! He has told me that with BM1 after the divorce she went out with man after man and moved so many times that after a couple of yrs he couldnt find them and the relative he was sending mail to had moved so his mail was returned to him. He says BM2(whom he wasnt married to) took their child after a huge fight and moved while he was away working leaving him out of any aspect of her life as well!