For those of you who not aware of my situation my husband moved his 13 yr old son in without talking to me about it. He conveniently slipped in a conversation we were having 5 minutes before the kid knocked on the door. In the beginning to my understanding it was only supposed to be for one school year but that has changed. I have a 12 yr old daughter and I am very concerned about him living in the house with the fact that they were not raised together as "brother n sister".
I am about to lose my husband because of his 13 year old son. He moved in with us a year ago without my consent; my husband didn't talk to me about this before it happened, he conveniently threw it in during a conversation 5 minutes before his son knocked on the door with his clothes. I have tried for a year to get over this but I can't. I have a 12 year old growing daughter who is no relation to this kid and I am not comfortable with him living in the house. He bullies her and doesn't like her. I don't know what to do, I feel like the best thing for me to do is seperate from my husband.