For those of you who not aware of my situation my husband moved his 13 yr old son in without talking to me about it. He conveniently slipped in a conversation we were having 5 minutes before the kid knocked on the door. In the beginning to my understanding it was only supposed to be for one school year but that has changed. I have a 12 yr old daughter and I am very concerned about him living in the house with the fact that they were not raised together as "brother n sister". At this point the both of them are at the curious age and I feel like I have to avoid any curious situations from accurring as well as the bullying from the Skid has to stop so I told my DH that him and his son has to leave. Right now the Skid is with his mother for summer. I love my DH and hate that this has to happen, it is getting closer to that time. I feel like I am losing my soulmate and I don't know what to do I just know that my first priority is to protect my daughter from as much as I can until the time comes that I can't anymore (when she is grown) and even then I will still try. I know that this may not be the right way to do things but I don't know what else to do; I am not perfect, I am doing the best I can to be the best mother possible. I just really got happy 9 yrs ago and now it has to end WTF!!!!! I am so mad. HELP!!!