seems like my dh feels guilty about just being with his bio kids 50/50 with mom. he never wants to miss any of their activities/games even if there is an equally important or more important event to go to he will pick his own kids. how do i deal with this? we rsvp'd to a baptism for tomorrow and it so happens that his 12 yr old has a game at the same time...so he cancels on the baptism! maybe wise counsel only please. thanks!