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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Sat, 09/03/2016 - 10:37am

It's very rare I lose my temper. But it happens.

I've had enough. Everyone SO and I make plans, just the 2 of us, BIL somehow gets included. We've been planning to attend SO's former boss's wedding for over 6 weeks now. BIL knows former boss, but wasn't invited.

Appetently, earlier in the week BIL said to SO he would like to attend former boss's wedding. SO asked former boss and former boss said he is always welcome.

OT-follow up to my last OT

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Tue, 08/30/2016 - 2:28pm

So this past weekend my mom went away on a horseback riding trip with her friends. She does this fairly often. Her best friend's daughter, Mary, generally coordinates these trips. Mary and I have a history of not getting along. Mary likes to take over things and put her two sense in where it isn't always wanted. For example-when I got my tattoos (I have a half sleeve now) I got the "If God wanted you to have that crap on your body he would have put it there" speech. To which I retorted-well, we were all born stark naked and here you are with clothing on.

Bullsh*t

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Sat, 08/27/2016 - 11:26am

So BM was supposed to come get SS to take him school shopping, go to the fair and whatnot. She told us both this after court and SS earlier in the week. We haven't heard from her and I asked SO this morning if he had hotte anything from her because I hadn't. He said "no, it's bullshit that she does this to him every weekend."

My two year old with her supersonic ears heard this and was sitting under the kitchen table and starts going

"Push-it" "push it"

SO says he doesn't doesn't think that's what she's saying, I tell him she's definitely trying to say "bullshit.

I'm framing the CO

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Wed, 08/24/2016 - 10:19am

While the court appointment was very anti-climactic (which I'm happy for) I'm very happy to announce:

We now have primary custody of SS with domicile and joint legal.

BM actually did hold up her end of the bargain when SO said he didn't see why they needed to go to mediation when they were in "agreement"-which I'm not sure if BM was trying to get us into mediation under false pretenses or not but it doesn't matter now.

I'm proud of her anyway. Royal PIA or not, that wouldn't be an easy thing for anyone to do.

Eureka! The Groceries!

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Mon, 08/22/2016 - 11:36pm

Today is my first day of my vacation. I took "vacation" from work to paint ceilings and moulding and whatever trivial painting/cleaning shit needed to be done because I can't stand another day in Spaghetti Land. I want my house-I want my routine-I want my space!

I appreciate you.

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Sun, 08/21/2016 - 12:51am

So I found some wine, it wasn't at the end of the tunnel but it was there.

Just thought I should tell you how much I appreciate you all, your support, your raw honesty.

This site is a saving grace.

Ya'll just keep on keepin on.

Confused. I hate when I can't take people at face value

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Fri, 08/19/2016 - 11:14am

I have a strict rule: If you're going to be a part of my life you gotta be able to keep it funky. I tell it like it is, I'm careful not to be harsh, but honest only when my opinion is asked or if something seriously needs to be addressed for health and safety purposes. It's the social worker in me.

Flavor of the Day? Cockroaches

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Tue, 08/16/2016 - 10:15pm

I seriously think there is something wrong with SS's BM. She calls me, after not speaking to me in a little over a month, to tell me she's picking SS up on Thursday. Not ask, tell. We have court at the end of the month to establish custody and she's seen him for a total of 5 hours (and that's a stretch) in the last month.

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