I have been with my husband for 9 years.I have no bio children and its because of him (my stepson)i dont want any..he is 14 and i cant stand him!!!He is horible in school,lazy,and all around just a total JERK!my step sons mother is totally trif,so i have been his mother(in my mind!) HOmework,injuries,sun rain you name it ive done it,birthday parties that she has never come to.if he needed it i was there to give it(as long as he earned it).On more than one ocation he gets disrectful mouths off and gives me the famous "YOUR NOT MY MOTHER".Ive been there since he was 5 years old and have done