I have been with my husband for 9 years.I have no bio children and its because of him (my stepson)i dont want any..he is 14 and i cant stand him!!!He is horible in school,lazy,and all around just a total JERK!my step sons mother is totally trif,so i have been his mother(in my mind!) HOmework,injuries,sun rain you name it ive done it,birthday parties that she has never come to.if he needed it i was there to give it(as long as he earned it).On more than one ocation he gets disrectful mouths off and gives me the famous "YOUR NOT MY MOTHER".Ive been there since he was 5 years old and have done more than his mother ever has! I have made every allowance because i know it must be hard when your parents arent together.BUT come on im soo sick of this!!!!!When i see his face i get sick cause i just hate him!!! Then i feel bad for feeling this way about a child,but then he does something else that makes me realize why I HATE him!!!!!so after our last argument i decided no more!I told him i know im not his mother and from this day forth im not gonna play the role any longer.Im tierd of him not eatting what i cook,im tierd of his attitude im tierd of getting my feelings hurt because i put myself on the line doing for him.I told him if he needs something ask his father.I have to turn off for a while because i am just really hating him!Its like being in an abusive relationship because i would tell myself that he is gonna be better,but i know he wont then he does something that makes me wanna knock his head off!!!!But i just walk away.I wish he would just go stay with his mother but he wont because he knows he wont get anything from her.And from now on he wont get anything from me!It is just a shame that i feel this way about him but it is what it is.I just thank GOD for this site!!!I have felt so alone and ashamed for having these feelings but i feel sooooooo much better bacause i see im not alone.....I AM NOT ALONE!!!!LMBOOOOO!!!!