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NOOOOOOOOO, they are coming back :(

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Submitted by lillfiredog on Tue, 09/09/2014 - 8:33am

Bm popped in to my workplace yesterday to give me a "heads up" that she will be kicking SS (the pothead) out of her house Friday if he doesn't shape up. He does nothing, no work, no school and is now 18.
I told her I don't want him at our house if he is going to do nothing. When I got home I told DH the same thing, I do not want a pot smoking deadbeat laying around our house. I said I won't put up with it. I wouldn't with my kids, I won't with his. But he didn't say one single word.

Now what? Would it be rude to ask them to come and get their crap?

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Submitted by lillfiredog on Fri, 09/05/2014 - 10:31am

So, the SS's stayed with the BM all summer. No telling us what is going on, what they where up to, why etc, etc. Just general rudeness as far as I am concerned. However, we had a fairly stress free summer without them. I am on pins and needles wondering when they are coming back. I know DH has been texting and asking when they are coming home. I really don't want them back.
I know it would be an assh*le thing for me to tell him "DH, didn't you notice how nice things were this summer?"

Still lurking.... and still the same sh*t

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Submitted by lillfiredog on Tue, 07/22/2014 - 12:00pm

I have not posted in a while but I have still been watching all you go through your own he**.
The court stuff is done for us, for now. The CS has been ordered to stop, but the money is still coming off his cheques! The stop was done in May, so I guess I have to make some calls and find what is going on. She was really, really mad. She expected not only to keep the CS going to her while princepothead lived with us, she wanted us to pay for his college. That is all done now. I don't doubt she is not done. She will find more ways to suck the bucks from us.

"this isn't working"

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Submitted by lillfiredog on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 9:52am

I wrote this once already, it didn't work. But I need to tell you all my hell weekend. On Saturday Dh and go to the supermarket to buy a few things. I am about done for the day from doing yard work all morning, just want to run in and out. He is completely starving and insanely b*tchy. I digress, he asks me what I want for supper, I am telling him "how about salmon? Burgers? Chicken wings are yummy" Dispite my being sore and tired, and watching him turn into Captain Arsewad in front of me, I also don't want another weekend ruined, I keep my happy face.

"Sorry for the extra stress babycakes" ... barf

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Submitted by lillfiredog on Fri, 05/02/2014 - 9:00am

So, we talked again last night, DH stating that there's nothing he can do, the lawyer better be right about stopping CS, we are going to responsible for PPH college.... etc.
I said, no. No parent should be responsible for their kids college. I reminded him that we literally live pay to pay, this pay being a good example of how broke we really are. Paid bills and rent, and literally have nothing left. He is deaf to that I guess.

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