Just beacasue it started a huge debate on my last blog and a certain someone got rather crappy over it- I called our crusie line. Even though I have taken my kids without their dad on 3 others and SS on one.

Carnival Cruise Line- "You do not need a letter from the other parent to to take YOUR child on a cruise." --- "While we recommend passorts to all travelers they are not required if you leave from the United States and return to the United States. You do have to have a birth certificate and for any child over the age of 16, a picture ID"

Ss14 is still not communicating with DH at all. He is blocked from his phone, messenger, instagram, FB messenger, facetime. We are still "friends" on facebook though. He has all his posts set to a private setting so that none of us can see anything on his wall other than what we post with him. 

I know that so many of you are going to tell me that this is why SS14 shouldn't even come on our vacation but we all know that DH is going to try until the end. I am just supporting his choice and rolling with it. I don't have any fight left in me at this point. 

While in SS14 paitent portal I was trying to update DH's contact info since he was still not listed for anything. In doing so I apparently started a sh!+ storm. I guess one of the phone numbers I changed was actually one of SS's primary contact numbers that didn't have to do with DH. Completely honest mistake. Nothing intentional. An email was sent out asking for clairification to DH and BM.

BM apparently told SS that DH now had access to his medical records to SS sent out a text stating that he "was done" with DH again and that he didn't want him to have access.