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Tell me I'm not crazy...

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It's been some time since I've posted anything because I try to just ignore a lot of SD and BM's behavior and its not worth sharing because then I would be giving them too much of my time.

Aside from posting the Dear Prudence column that pissed me off this week, I haven't posted anything.

4 years later...

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Last time I posted, my FSD was 6 and I lived with my BF and my chance of having kids was not good. Fast forward 4 years later and my BF has become my hubby of 3 years, and I know have a SD who is about to turn 10 years old. I also gave birth to a baby girl in December, who is now 5 months old.

Should I be concerned about the following?

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I posted yesterday about how I secretly am happy when we don't get SD but by the same token I don't want her father, my BF to lose touch with her. I have disengaged myself but in no way do I want their relationship to suffer. Anywho...I have no children of my own but I have nieces, 18 mos, 4 and 5 years of age. So I have some idea of how a child develops with age.

I have noticed that SD, who is 6 by the way exhibits the following:

SD6 had done a total 180, for the worst

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This is the first time I post. I don't know what to do or if the feelings I'm having are justified. I have been in a relationship with my BF for over a year and we were friends for about a decade before we decided to date. He married his girlfriend from high school about 6 years ago because it was his duty as a man, since he got her pregnant. At the time we were friends and I was one of many friends who advised him against this. He was 21 and she was 20 at the time and since high school their relationship had been far from great.