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dh's custody agreement is a few shades of gray and bm said POINT BLANK about taking MY money!?
dh just went about a week ago to get his final custody agreement settled. thank GOD dh's lawyer said bm didnt have to be there since she already signed it, a judge just had to sign off on it and make it official. Because we already knew that lately bm has been acting shiesty and moody and would probably try to claim that she didnt agree to any of it, AND because she agreed to lower dh's CS payments! Which they werent that much anyway, but he was supposed to be getting her more, but he has since moved back here about an hour and a half away.
o/t for people who own their own business?
Recently been seeing alot of smoms on here who own their own business. Just curious, without being totally specific, what type of business is it?
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question about claiming kids on taxes & contempt of court?
H got his final court order signed and approved by the judge today. In the CO says that parents will claim sd EOyear, this year being Bm's. H mentioned it to bm today and she said something about "not remembering it being there when she signed the agreement & was going to go back to court to have it changed" not honestly H said he doesnt care if he doesnt claim sd ever anyway, he was going to use that $$ to put in her savings acct anyway. BUT if he was to do it on the years he's entitled to; could bm try to fight it?
o/t - dh scares me
oh my gosh. just had a huge blowout with dh over how I parked my car crooked and he almost hit it.
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o/t for people who have been in abusive relationships
If you wouldnt mind sharing, when did you know that your SO/H/BF was an abuser?
Did he start out with physical abuse, or was it emotional, i.e. belittling, no respect for you/your belongings, always thinking things were your fault? Did he have a bad temper?
if its not one thing then its another ! kinda long
we were supposed to get sd over the MLK holiday because she was off school 2 days then it was the weekend. well dh and bm got into a fight so she didnt answer her phone when he was going to go pick her up and wasnt going to drive the hour and half to see about getting her. Saturday rolls around and bm texts dh and said that sd had to go to the ER because she 'hurt her back' she doesnt specify how it happened and doesnt tell dh anything else. Then monday rolls around, sd goes BACK to the ER this time, she has a kidney infection. (she gets UTI's really easily, as does BM..
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o/t - marriage thoughts ; divorce thoughts...
Seems like a lot of people on here are getting divorces or are thinking about getting divorces.
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OT- i need help if someone can offer me advice- marriage problem.
i'll try to keep this short. me and dh have been married for 8 months, known him for almost 4 years. He's not happy with me. He says i dont have enough passion for him, that I dont try enough (mostly on sexual issues -my sex drive definitely is not as high as his either) he's been feeling this way for quite some time. I have tried to make things better, spice things up, but its not a consistent thing. I do it for a few days and then i go back to being the same way as before. How do you guys keep passion and romance alive in the marriage?
moments like this i wish dh didnt have a child with someone else.
Spent time with my SIL, my almost 2 year old niece, my mom, and SIL's friend and her 5 month old daughter today for a few hours. then Babysat my niece with my mom for an hour while SIL and her friend and daughter went to the store across town. dh and I were supposed to get sd7 this weekend (4 day weekend) it was a last minute thing on Wednesday, dh was going to pick her up yesterday after work, but dh and bm got into it and bm hung up on him and wouldnt return his calls and dh wasnt about to drive the 3 hour round trip to go see if she would let him have her.
does your DH/SO ever say anything to you about your parenting style?
For some reason, me and dh got onto the subject of if we had kids and if we got divorced. I think it was after we started talking about bm and sd. dh doesnt like how bm parents sd, as she is more permissive and he thinks that sd would be better off with him, which of course i agree, I think he is an excellent parent. Sometimes I feel he is too harsh on her, but I dont say anything, unless I feel it really is unjust; I just did that one time and he agreed with me.