If BM or anything to do with her...her family etc comes up, we seem to get into a huge argument. My DH is so defensive when it comes to this subject matter. We always end up arguing and I bring up how he’s being defensive. Today he ended up storming off and locking himself in the bedroom. Today I just asked a question and it went all over the place. He’s so over the top protective of his kids. I don’t know if he feels like it’s something against his kids but that makes no sense whatsoever. Does anyone have experience with this?

My kids are a little older than DH’s. My youngest is 3 years older than his oldest. I raised my kids to be independent and not rely on mom and dad. When I say this I mean they were taught responsibilities and work ethics. When they were in high school they had jobs and paid for their gas in their cars. My daughter is 20 now and even if I offer to help her she says no mom that’s why I work. I need to manage my money in will save up for it. She was so independent that her senior year in high school she refused to let us buy her prom dress.

I was glad to hear from all of you that I'm not crazy!!! Let me give you some background because I don't know how I will be able to stop this. We will be at a football game where the senior SD would get the end of halftime and all of 3rd quarter off. We will have empty seats all around us and she comes and sits in DH's lap...the entire time!!! Yes it freaks me out because it is gross!!! DH brags to friends about how his kids still love to sit in his lap. He thinks somehow it shows that he's a good dad because they still want to do it.

So I got a call from DH today. One of his friends called him and told him that someone close to him, who he considers like a son and watched the kid (mid 20s) grow up slept with DH's ex wife. Apparently this happened about 3 years ago. DH is upset with him. Apparently ex wives should be off limits. Ok. I'm pissed that he even gives two craps who his ex sleeps with. I don't care who my ex sleeps with. I left him and it's none of my business. DH doesn't want to talk to the boy now and he's mad. How should I feel about this?