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I was watching the news

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and what I watched made me ill..It goes to show you how we Stepmothers/SO get treated by government..Has anyone caught where the little girl in Florida is missing and the first person they questioned was the SM??? Im not jumping to conclusions but what Im saying is why are we the first ones who are the evils ones it could be anyone that had taken that little girl but the lil girls fathers gf has to take a polygraph test, unfreakin believable..And my DH wonders after his daughter accused me of hitting her why I dont want to be around her..

How did you all handle

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husband paying CS..I know he has to do it, but it still makes me so angry..Not only is she taking one whole paycheck she gets more money out of him than I do..Each month I know its coming and I get pissed..And I try to tell myself he has to or he will go to jail..Yet the skids never call him just to say hi dad or how are you, or we want to visit NOTHING..And we are doing without so the BM and skids can pay a mortgage for a nice big house, something I want but Im stuck in this shithole apartment bc we cant afford a house, because he is paying for them..So how did you all come to terms with d

Share with me your thoughts

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on a few things..I was looking through a few photo albums of my husband and his children..Just looking at those photos disgust me and I fill up with anger..Why?? Because his exwife was the one who took the pictures,secondly he is always telling me how unhappy he was..Well dumbass if you were so unhappy why were you popping kids out like rabbits..

Aggravated!!!!!

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My FH or should I say future exfiance is the biggest liar, god ever put breath in..I swear to god this man couldnt tell the truth if his a$$ was on fire and I had a bucket of water to put him out, but the glitch being he would have to tell me the truth about something he would rather burn to death..So today I catch him up in two different lies..The first one I check the bank account which I dont often do bc well I have this thing called trust that I no longer have.

What to get an ungrateful 11 yr old stepdaughter

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for christmas..I have no idea what this kid is into besides the hating of me and her father, telling lies one after another like its her job. I have 5 kids to buy for at christmas my two children and fhs 3 children. All are easy to buy for but her as usual the difficult one. If any of you have an 11 yr old stepdaughter whos going on 25 I would love to know what you got/getting them for christmas. I was thinking coal but here in Va, I really cant find any and plus I dont think my FH would like that very much }:)

Off topic but need advice

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My FH mother has been diagnoised (sp?) with mouth cancer. Well Im really worried about her, and my F FIL. But I have only been through the cancer trauma once my whole life with my grandfather and sadly he passed 9 years ago with it. Everyone thinks Im the strong one the one with a solid head on my shoulders. But in all honesty its killing me on the inside this woman has been more of a mother to me than anything and I love her dearly.

Is it okay

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to go to the child custody hearing with my FH? His divorce will be final in 2 weeks and the hearing is on the 24th of Nov. I want to be there to support him through this time but dont want to jeopardize him getting full custody of his boys either. If you can give me some advice on this I would love it. Thanks in advance

1 year coming up

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and my F can finally file for divorce. Did any of you go with your H/F when he went to the lawyer for the first time. My F wants me to go with him bc he is nervous and I want to go but I dont want to hurt his case either. Given we live together and his ex lives with her bf I know that can in court be used against him. So should I stay home and write out everything for him to give to the lawyer or let him. Because Im afraid he will be really nervous and forget half of what to tell him!!!If so what types of things do they ask you or what are we in for?

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