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FuBaR's picture

and my F can finally file for divorce. Did any of you go with your H/F when he went to the lawyer for the first time. My F wants me to go with him bc he is nervous and I want to go but I dont want to hurt his case either. Given we live together and his ex lives with her bf I know that can in court be used against him. So should I stay home and write out everything for him to give to the lawyer or let him. Because Im afraid he will be really nervous and forget half of what to tell him!!!If so what types of things do they ask you or what are we in for?

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sparky's picture

Sure you should go if you want to. If he tells you don't show up in court then stay away.

Colorado Girl's picture

appointment he had with his lawyer.

I, however, stayed clear of the actual courtroom...I let him handle that aspect.

I know the lawyer appreciated when I became involved. I was very organized and very knowledgeable of the process (since I'd done it all before). I was merely there to help...not interfere. Smile

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