This is the most common phrase out of Softheart's mouth to DH. She asks for something every weekend we have her and always says that before she asks. One weekend it was $50 for one pair of jeans because "Mom won't buy me any and I ruined my one favorite pair." I told DH she did not need a $50 pair of jeans. She is a tom-boy and rough on clothes and shoes. I suggested taking her to Plato's Closet and letting her get a used pair. So that's what we did. Another weekend it was, "Daddy I hate to ask you for money but I need money for a ticket to Dollywood.

I started getting a cold or something yesterday afternoon. Woke up this morning and felt like ass! I've just been taking it easy, taking meds and drinking juice. Other than being sick it's been a relaxing day. DH just got home and bless him...he brought the whole drugstore home with him! Then he drops the bomb on me, "I have to go get Softheart." I don't mind her being here. She can be annoying because she thinks she's super cute and talks about all the bossy things she does at school.

I can walk around Thunderfoot and never say a word. It comes easily now. But I can't ignore her ways. She's not supposed to have food in her room. By food I mean something she could spill because she is a klutz! DH has been working his ass off and tonight I made tacos to celebrate Cinco de Mayo...that and tequila shots. We all ate together...which I hate because she talks the entire time about shit she has no clue about.

I helped a friend of mine set up a birthday party for her son yesterday. We were sitting on her porch talking and she was asking me how things were going. She said, "So how do you and Thunderfoot get along?" I told her that we don't at all. That I just couldn't even make myself like her because she's lazy and disrespectful and treats DH like shit. She said, "I saw that coming. At your wedding I noticed something was off about her and figured you 2 were going to butt heads.