(Backstory) We are getting ready to purchase our home that we've lived in for our entire relationship (and beyond for DH). So there is a lot of updating and repairs to be done. I am worn out. We are buying it from my SIL who is basically a dictator. So she is running us ragged. I have chronic back issues, have for the passed 8-9 years. I injured it on the job when someone did something stupid and I paid the price. Not seeking pity, but explaining the cards dealt to me. I deal with it. But it does affect my daily life often. Like, right now its on fire from a rough day at work.