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Crazo strikes again!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Mon, 02/04/2013 - 12:33pm

FDH just sent me an email. Crazo told him she sent her taxes in and claimed both kids. She deserves too!

Their DC clearly states she claims fss15 and he claims fsd12.

He is meeting with his attorney tomorrow.

How is this resolved now? Does he file claiming fsd12 with a copy of the paperwork or does he have to go to court first?

I know a couple of things have been posted on this already, but I don't remember what you said had to be done first.

Thanks!

His or Her Home?

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 01/29/2013 - 11:57am

I have been on this site for about 2 1/2yrs. 1/2 yr lurking and two years posting.
It seems to be that there are several issues that could be resolved if it was not her or his home.

When we move in with our DH's and his kids. They already have a comfort there. Us and our kids are the outsiders. No wonder we do not feel like there is a place for us and we don't fit in. Habits, routines, and territories have been established.

It's Monday and I am in a bad mood!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Mon, 01/28/2013 - 10:42am

Why? Just because I hate the whole step world. It was a skid weekend, well that was bad enough....they really are not that bad, it is just so much better and easier with out them.

Finally FDH takes them home....so glad looking forward to a nice quiet rest of the evening. The phone goes off...of course it is Crazo texting again.

Come back over here and drop of the child support check. My FDH sends a text back, no I will drop it off on Wednesday when I pick up the kids. She text back fine.

Would you go to a meetup group for Step moms?

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Mon, 01/14/2013 - 10:36am

I am a member of a couple of meet up groups in here in Florida. I am thinking of starting one for Step moms, for lack of a better term. I do not like the word or the connotation that goes with it. I do not consider myself any ones mom except my biod.......sorry got off on a tangent.

I am not the fskids mom so I find other things to do when we have them. I spend sometime with them put do not spend the whole time with them. Don't want or feel the need to.

Just wanted to wish you all a Happy Friday! Especially those of you with a skid free weekend!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Fri, 01/11/2013 - 2:36pm

I love this site! Sometimes it reminds me: to be thankful, reminds me not to act like the mom, makes me mad, sad, and every emotion in between. I rejoice in your accomplishments with your skids and So/Dh's.

We have the skids this weekend, but I am not dreading it. My FDH had an amazing romantic night last night so I am still feeling warm and fuzzy. Still on cloud nine.

When that wears off, I always have a glass a wine or Captain Morgan and diet near me!

Why do you think I should feel about your child the way you do?

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Wed, 01/09/2013 - 9:33am

My FDH just had this discussion again this morning. What is up with these people? I have a grown bio daughter, I do not expect my FDH to ever love or feel about her the way I do. How can he, she is not his.

So why do these people think we should love and want to spend every moment with THEIR child. Crazo cannot understand why we will not take the skids every weekend. And she means it. She thinks I want to spend my time with HER kids. Really? Are you really that stupid and naive?

Crazo never ceases to amaze me!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Thu, 01/03/2013 - 10:56am

She just tried to call my FDH, of course he has not taken a call from in her 3yrs so he lets it go to VM. So then she starts texting him.
Her husband of 4yrs has not had a good December in his business. So he will not be able to pay his half of their bills. She tells my FDH that she will need him to make up the difference. Really, your lack of budgeting and saving is your ex husbands issue?

We laughed so hard I almost wet myself.

Need advice about prenup, taxes, insurance, etc......

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Wed, 01/02/2013 - 12:58pm

Scared silly, but still getting married in May of this year. We are going to get a prenup drawn up since, I own my home and he has graciously accepted to move into mine and give up his place. My child is grown and on her own. His are 12 and 15.

I am keeping my home and mortgage in my name and establishing my part of the home at its current value and then anything that is would appraise for over the current value we would split if and when we would sell it.

We are both keeping our own bank accounts and opening a joint account to pay bills out of.

So Tired! It's been a long time since I have written anything.

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 10/09/2012 - 2:08pm

It's been a while, but I am always here reading, learning, listening. I finally told my SO I would marry him next year.

I hate to say it...but I am.
I wish he didn't have the skids..or I wish they were grown.

It is so hard. The fskids are nice, polite, easy to get along with but they are kids. My daughter is grown, wonderful, independent. I thought I was done with the whole kid thing.

I feel bad...then I don't. It is not personal. It's not that I hate them or dislike them. I just don't like the whole kid thing most of the time.

Just found out NO skids for spring break!!!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 01/10/2012 - 10:41am

I am so doing the Happy Dance!!! Last year Crazo took the skids for spring break out of town to meet up with her father, of course without even letting us know.

What she doesn't realize it was our year to have them. After our court date in the summer the judge said absolutely no changing the schedule...

So guess what? The papers say we have them on odd years!

NO skids, she will have them! Christmas was long...and I was tired. So ready for them to back to crazo's. They are good kids, but they are so much work. I like the just me and my SO time.

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