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I don’t appreciate how SS is growing

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Sun, 02/27/2022 - 5:34am

SS spent his winter holidays with us. It was a relief to see that big drama seem to be behind him (For now). 

It wasnt exhausting to have him home this time, however, i have to admit i don't appreciate the person SS is becoming. 

 

First, he is the best, even if he is terrible at an activity or a game, he says he is the best. And when he says he is not, it's because he wants to hear "oh no, don't say that, you know you are the best". 

 

SS holidays, MIL visitation and BS

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Thu, 02/24/2022 - 5:00pm

My MIL is absolutely stupid. Hilariously stupid. 

SS was at home, spending half of holidays with us. BM agrees to let SS spend the other half at MIL and allowed her to come and pick him up at our house. 

MIL asked DH if it was possible to come on early afternoon in order to spend some times with BS. She didn't see him since many months, so DH agreed.

Selfish SS, i’m disappointed

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Mon, 01/24/2022 - 3:15pm

Tonight i just need to vent, 

SS10 called me last evening to ask me something. He wanted me to help setting up a game on his switch. 
It wasn't hard at all, just needed the manual (sounds like BM and stepfather don't know how to read). I spend 1 hour facetiming him to explain how to do it. 

When the thing was done, he just said "ok thank you so much you are the best byeeeee" 

It was the first time since christmas we talked. He didn't asked me anything about me or our DS. Absolutely nothing, don't even a "how are you?" or "is my brother fine ?". 
 

SS has COVID

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Wed, 01/05/2022 - 12:11pm

We just found out that SS has covid. It came from his stepdad, who was covid+ since the week-end. He and BM decided to not send kids to school (SS and their 3yo) but didn't judged necessary to isolate the stepdad. 
Result is : they ALL have COVID and SS is bad. 
 

From SS10 dental fees to master drama

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Thu, 12/30/2021 - 9:59am

I though drama were behind us. 

Today MIL called DH. DH answered cause he though it was about his grand mother who has cancer. 
MIL was furious, out of nowhere. 
 

She claimed that DH didn't wish her merry christmas. He replied by saying that since she doesn't treat DS like SS, he doesn't want her to be part of our family. 

Good friend make me feel terrible about SS

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Sun, 12/26/2021 - 5:09am

Today i've seen a very good friend of mine. We see each other around christmas every year as she lives near my parent.

Today we talked about our lives, like normal friends. She take somes news about DS and DH, but then started to talk about SS.

According to her DH must take SS full time custody to "fix him" from manipulative MIL and BM education. 
She let me understand that DH wasn't a good father to rise two children in two different ways. SS needs and deserves the same education than DS. It's not fair to him. 
 

Thank you MIL, just feeling DS not part of SS family

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Sat, 12/25/2021 - 9:05am

SS spent a week with us and we celebrate christmas with him on 23th. 
I was really anxious about the holidays but things went almost well. 
However, he still badmouth behind our back. This time it was not about DH or me but about DS.
He spent some time at home with BS and BS's nanny when he didn't want to go out with DH. 

Please, leave my son’s teeth in peace !

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Fri, 12/17/2021 - 3:59pm

My son has a really beautiful smile ! I know it's my son, but every people he has met said that too. Even when he did not have any tooth.

But my wonderful devil MIL, who only visited him 4 times in one year (but who will go to visit SS EOWE) find the only way to attack my son : his teeth. They are a bit discarded at the front. 
Last time (and least time) she saw him, the only thing she said about him, and in front of him was : 

MIL : oh my god, it's soooo sooo shocked about his teeth

Me : you see ? He has plenty now ! 

Visitation starts today, and i’m anxious

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Thu, 12/16/2021 - 12:46am

Today SS comes for the christmas holidays. 
Last year has been the worst holidays ever because of all the drama BM and MIL brought. 
SS was supposed to come spend christmas with us at my family, but he was sick and BM refused to let him covid tested. She was supported by MIL. 
She didn't want to traumatise him, which 1 year later still seems soo ridiculous regarding the context (he is tested now about once a week due to numerous school covid contacts). 

SS leaves this afternoon, can’t wait !

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Sat, 08/14/2021 - 4:33am

It's been a while since i haven't posted on ST. 
I had a pretty huge week, with SS here, baby, me teleworking (COVID-19 contact, thanks i'm negative !), my DS nanny sick, DH working a lot etc...

SS arrived last saturday, with absolutely no game, he forgot his electronic game and as he always brings to BM the toys DH buy, there is pretty nothing left here. 

He is punished of extra activities because everytimes he went, DH was doing the impossible to entertain him, and went he went back to BM he always said it was boring. 

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