SS leaves this afternoon, can’t wait !
It's been a while since i haven't posted on ST.
I had a pretty huge week, with SS here, baby, me teleworking (COVID-19 contact, thanks i'm negative !), my DS nanny sick, DH working a lot etc...
SS arrived last saturday, with absolutely no game, he forgot his electronic game and as he always brings to BM the toys DH buy, there is pretty nothing left here.
He is punished of extra activities because everytimes he went, DH was doing the impossible to entertain him, and went he went back to BM he always said it was boring.
So he went all the week to center activities, where he had fun, and then no extra activities at home.
On wednesday, he went back from the center where they spent an outside day at a beach. He told us everyone has pocket money, and that he was the only one to not have any. He told he was stressed all day long.
On the following morning, when i let him to the center, i told the director what SS said, and that i was not aware that pocket money was required. He told me that no one has pocket money, and that pocket money was strictly forbiden.
An another lie ! Pfffff
He just played the poor boring kig all the week. DH told him it was his falt if he didn't bring the switch (DH paid for it by the way - so he has two switch at BM) or any other toy.
Now, he is on the sofa, TV off, and just don't do anything. I asked him why he doesn't put the TV on and he just replied with a wierd voice "i don't want to watch TV, i don't know what to do". I suggested he could read a book, but nothing.
Yesterday, when i was doing the laundry i saw painting on his Tshirt. I asked him what he did. He just reply "ok that's ok, i'll by a new one". I asked if he will use his pocket money, and he was laughing "i never use my money, i keep everything for me when i'll be adult". I asked if he ever used it to buy candy or gift for his mom : "no, step dad pay for the gift, and the candy are bought by adult".
What a state of mind ! I was shocked
He leaves in one hour and a half. I'm counting the minutes !
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He's certainly shown his true
He's certainly shown his true colours over the last six months or so, hasn't he?
I suggest you prepare a list of chores to do for the next time he says he's bored. :)
Yes that must be it. Of
Yes that must be it. Of course he is young. But i never though a child could be stingy !
And for the obsequious trait, it's not dedicated to us specifically. Yesterday, i heard him talking to BM by the phone about the Tshirt :
- mommy i've something to tell you but i'm soooo scared to say it
- yes i know you won't be upset, but i'm scared to tell you
- ok, i'm a little scared to say about the shirt, you know, i've put some painting on it
- thank you so much to buy me a new one !
He wasn't scared at all, everything was comedy
There is seriously something
There is seriously something broken in that kid. My three year old has more empathy and honesty. He sounds like the sort of person who will go to jail for murder one day screaming "it wasn't me" all the way there.
Yes, that's right something
Yes, that's right something is broken.
He just seem to not have empathy at all, everything except him has no importance.
BM is supposed to send him to therapist from september, but i bet she won't.
I know many of you have terrible SKID. Mine is different. Everything revolve around him but he tries to make other do what he wants without never asking directly.
He sounds like
My two youngest skids who were exactly like this when young. Always "bored" because they took all the toys back to the BM vortex, never to be seen again. Zero empathy for others, lying, stealing, lazy, oafish, manipulative, deceitful.
I thank my lucky stars the last one PASed out almost 12 yrs ago.
Ouaou 12 years ago? And how
Ouaou 12 years ago?
And how are they now ? As grown up adult ? Are they in jail ? (Just jocking).
They are grown now the youngest
Is 18 1/2. The ones in their twenties all have menial jobs because the BM told them that they would be famous rock stars or famous actors but did not plan for a career. Also they were never required to do any schoolwork or even show up to school whatsoever by the BM.
The boys especially the youngest is a druggie
I feel bad for the child
He is going to have a hard life if he doesn't develop some life skills. Nothing you can or should do about it but at some point he is going to get himself into serious trouble with his lies.