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OMG- She wrote on the wall!!
I just walked by SD's room and noticed the reading light was on. So I walked over to her bed to turn it off and noticed it was pointed at the wall. And there on the wall she had written a bunch of names of anime characters! Seriously? She's not 4 years old, she's TWELVE!
I am pissed. I took a pic and will be emailing it to FDH to explain he needs to call her right now and ask her to explain herself. She also needs to plan to clean it herself when she comes next time.
I guess this is what she did in response to my foiling her attempt to steal back her computer last night.
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SD's Attempt to Ruin the 4th of July and FDH's Non-Attempt to Do Anything About Her
As I've mentioned before, my YSD (just turned 12) is a complete mess. She stopped going to school in February because of her "anxiety". She had to have a tutor come twice a week and get her through the school year. She has no friends. She does nothing but sit on her computer 24 hours a day. When you try to get her to do anything other than be on the computer (beach, pool, evening walk, read a book, go to school etc...) she throws a massive tantrum.
My Kid Exchange with BM
BM was supposed to pick up SD at 11:30. She arrived at 12:10. No call, no text, just late. This is the same woman who refuses visitation to FDH now if he's a minute late.
I put my partially packed suitcase by the front door so it would be obvious that I am also going with FDH on his trip. (Couldn't help it).
I was livid by the time she arrived. When the doorbell rang I let her sit out there a few minutes in the heat. I opened the door and handed her SD's bags and said "She's chosen not to eat, get dressed or wear shoes." She said "Got it".
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BM and SD Filled Morning. Why did I do this?
FDH is celebrating a landmark birthday today. Despite her best efforts to stay home with BM, SD12 was here last night for visitation. I had a nice dinner and cake for him so he could celebrate with his daughter. Of course, the whole thing got off to a very late start because she refused to come out of the house and get in his car. This resulted in BM leaving the house (somehow this was supposed to help) and then FDH going IN her house to get her.
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Vent: Highlights of the Four Day Father's Day Crapfest
Well, the four-day Father’s Day extravaganza is finally over! Phew. Here are some highlights:
Just Frustrated- FDH Slips Back to His Old Ways of Dealing with BM
Sometimes it feels like FDH just isn’t getting it.
Update: Boundaries Laid-- Crazy Train Arrives
Hello all,
It’s been a while since I’ve posted an update to the saga around here so I am long overdue for those who care/have been following the story. (I really appreciate you!)
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FDH Weighs in on Why Men are Better with their New SO than Ex Wife (Not for the easily offended)
Hi everyone,
I haven't posted in a while and don't have time to give a major update on the craziness that has descended upon us since FDH laid down some boundaries with BM. But I thought I'd take a moment today to share something pretty funny.
BM Response to Boundary Email? Slap FDH with Contempt of Court, of Course!
I opened the mail today to find a very thick envelope from the court. I texted FDH and he asked me to open it. She filed contempt charges this week stating:
- He owes her for childcare/summer camp costs because he hasn't taken the kids for half the summer. Um, the CO doesn't state that he must. It says he has the right to. It doesn't mention childcare or summer camp. Plus, her parents pay for summer camp and she had no childcare last year-- left them home alone as they are not young. Another camp was free. And WE paid for camp for one kid. So that one is stupid.
Follow Up to BM Call and 2 Skids driving me insane- Vent time
First- follow-up to BM’s 11PM phone call last night: