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SD's refusal to go to school- headed for a full psych eval

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Last week, I reported that SD12 refused to go to school on Tuesday and Wednesday and BM expected FDH to "roll up his sleeves" and parent. In other words, she wanted him to take off work, come to her house and do something about it. He didn't. He picked her up Wednesday after work, we went to dinner and attended MSD's school play. SD was fine and happy the whole time.

Update: FDH emailed BM- and check out her awesome response!

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FDH sent this email to BM with the subject line of SD 12's name. It said this:

I made an appointment with the therapist for SD next Wednesday (10/2) at 10am. I will be home that day so I can take her. She has an opening for tomorrow at 10am. But, I would rather her go to school.

Help needed- SD and BM off the rails-- Advice Please

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Hello all-- Been absent for a while but have an issue I need help with.

If you follow me, you know that SD12 has major issues. She's diabetic, has social anxiety and a major case of entitlement and severe defiance. She was home schooled through the hospital homebound program from Jan- June last year. This year, she changed schools b/c she moved (moved in with BM's BF and his kids). She liked her new school and it started off well.

Wake the Eff Up FDH!!!

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Man am I in a bad mood. I have been sick (cold with fever turned into stomach thing with fever) since last Saturday. I am overwhelmed with all this mental health stuff.... And FDH has his head suddenly firmly planted in the sand again.

For those who don't know, I checked myself into an in-patient facility a few weeks ago. I went in to get myself to stop drinking, which had gotten out of control recently, and to get help with depression. I haven't had a drink since then and I am working hard to fight this depression which was diagnosed as severe.

In other news, OSD wants me to go to Europe with her

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OSD just emailed me and asked if I wanted to go to England next summer. She and her best friend want to go and they want "a 'responsible' adult to go too and make sure they don't get too drunk or in trouble". They will both be almost 19 by that time but there are some learning disabilities for both and they seem to feel the need to have an older adult there. I told her I thought it was a great idea and we are looking into now.

Update on SD's Hospitalization- SD Really Saved Her Own Life Yesterday

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As I posted last night, YSD was sent via ambulance to the hospital due to a Type 1 Diabetes related issue. From the info we got at first, it sounded like she would just get some insulin and go home. They ended up keeping her overnight and she might be discharged today. Turns out the situation was far worse than early reports.

SD is in the hospital-- thanks to crappy parenting.

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This is probably going to sound callous as hell but I gotta get this out here so I don't say it to FDH.

FDH is in a city two hours south of us right now, trading in his car. He planned to go straight from there to pick up SD12 and SD15 at BM's house. Then they were driving to another state, six hours away, to visit OSD for her birthday. They planned to stay all weekend. I planned to have a quiet weekend to myself.

LOL- BM Thinks FDH Should BRIBE SD12 to Visit

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Last Thursday, SD12 refused to visit and as I posted she also expressed her fear that not visiting would cause FDH to send "mommy to jail". FDH didn't address the jail thing with BM (of course) but he did talk to her about SD12 not wanting to visit. He asked her if she thought it was because we've put some rules and structure in place at our house.

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