I am about to pull my hair out! I am in a relationship with a guy that I love very much. I can't picture being without him for two seconds and then when his daughter comes over and I feel that I go from the top of his list to the very bottom. She is 4 and from a previous relationship. I have 3 kids from a previous marriage. We also have one baby together. Here is my problem. He thinks she is the cats meow (with 4 other kids around) and it drives me nuts.