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No DH the skids aren't my kids but the furbabies are!
I have BS8.
DH has skids, 21, 20, 18, 14.
I have 3 cats- a girl and 2 boys.
I am lying in bed with the girl cat, reading my book. She gets allergies and needs her eyes cleaned out at times. DH comes in and mentions that she needed her eyes cleaned out and I said, okay well go and do it. And he made a comment about how I am her Mother.
So I am just being funny and am like "I know its hard being the mother of 4, especially when 3 of the them (the cats) are like newborns needing my attention all the time. But girl cat is my princess baby."
YSD14 posted something RUDE about DH- Help bc its just another thing for me to not like about her
I'm not friends with YSD14 (stb15) on FB but DH is. Sometimes I will read DH's newsfeed through his FB on his phone if I am bored. Mainly because he has a few crazy cousins and their FB drama can be entertaining. The skids rarely post on FB so I dont have to really worry about seeing a post from them that I dont like.
So we are laying in bed and a post from YSD says something to the effect of "My father is never there for me like he should be My brother is more like a father to me and has been there more for me he's showing me what a father is like"
In a whole lotta step shit and just tired of it...anyone else?
I'm a SM to 3 snotty bitchy SDs. 1 okay SS. I'm sick of when they "intrude" on the perfect life that I have when it's just me, DH and my BS. Then I feel guilty for even thinking that way because they are my DH's kids and he is good with my BS. But then I remember how they act like mini wives and steal from me and give me an attitude even when I was nice and fair and before I truly became "evil SM". I hate how they seem to only come around when they want or need something from DH. I hate how he acts like a babbling idiot when they do come around.
SF death.... BM still is "the one"....
Yesterday was 2 years since my SF died. Technically when he died it had been 18 years since he had been my SF.
He was in my life from the time I was 2-12. I saw him on/off when him and my mom first divorced and then over time he moved/I moved and we lost touch. I come from a small town and was still close to my Step-sisters for years, so I knew what was going on with my SF, etc. But I moved away right after HS so it was difficult to maintain much of a relationship.
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Def. unexpected.....thoughts?
DH owes back childsupport. Like $5000. This was from when he had custody of SS and then he dropped off and him and BM never got CS re-evaluated. (BM has custody of 2 skids).
Well we filed joint for taxes. I filed the Injured Spouse form with the Federal taxes. For the State I didnt file the form because I thought that the state didnt honor it. I have since read on their website that they will send you a letter when your State Refund is going to be offset for back child support and that you (so me) can file the form requesting my portion of the state taxes.
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Hey Dad can you buy me a car?
SS20 called DH last night. He is all proud that he has a job. A real one. Not under the table or only part time or when needed. WOW Good for you! You are 20 years old and finally have a job.
Of course he asks DH if he can have DH's old car (that is just sitting in the driveway but is a true junker. It's more there for something for DH to play with)or if DH can help him with buying a car.
WTF- we aren't rich, you have been on "your own" for over a year. Why do you think we will help you with a car?
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Bio Father shout out
Yes I have to give a "shout out" to my Ex, BS8's dad.
He asked to keep BS this weekend. Originally it was becuase he was off on Monday as well and this would give him more time to spend with BS but that has changed due to too many school days missed bc of the weather, so Monday is now a make-up day.
This is Valentine's weekend. Ex works at a steak house. He has potential to make a lot of cash! Instead he will be allowing me and DH to spend our first Valentine's Day as husband and wife together ALONE and he will be spending some much needed time with BS.
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This bothers me- YSD's selfies on DH's phone
When DH and I first got together, I noticed that YSD and MSD played on his phone a lot. At the time he didnt have a "smart phone" so it's not like he had FB on it, or games, etc. I didnt like it for the fact that he and I would send "private" texts and it bothered me that they could be reading it.
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A MIL funny towards OSD.....
For the most part I like my MIL. She is always kind and nice to me and my BS. However, she was a shitty (really shitty) mom when raising DH. I think this has contributed to a lot of issues in how he is as a father and a husband.
When she posts stuff on FB, sometimes she tends to say stuff that I think she should keep to herself.
However, she posted something that I found humorous.
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My nieces dad
My niece is 18. She has just been in contact with her bio dad for about a year.
BD and my sis had my niece when they were teenagers. A lot of drama happened on both their sides. BD got into drugs and took off. My sis met future BIL and he raised my niece since she was 1 years old. That has been her dad.
Anywho so niece and BD talk now. Mostly texts and FB. I think they talked a lot more before they actually met and they met over the summer.
I have no issues with the BD. He is actually the brother of one of my closest childhood friends.
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