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O/T The Implication (Just a Rant)

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Background info:  I'm a 62.5 yr old female with a bad shoulder after two surgeries from an MVA.  I also had stage I breast cancer last spring and received radiation treatment in the late summer/early autumn after surgery in June (back to back surgeries with shoulder surgery).  Chef is 8 yrs younger.  He just turned 55.

Updates on Those Who Have Exited StepHELL

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I know some have stayed on this forum past SH and commented, which is a great morale booster to those who are making the right choice to exit themselves. 

I know others lurk from time to time.   It would be nice to get updates from some former posters.  I would love to learn, for example, how Simpleton made out post shiftless guilty daddy.

If any of you escapees would like to join in and update, that would be marvelous!

I Updated My Will!

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And went full Joan Crawford!  Chef can remain in the house as long as he pays the bills and DOESN'T house any of the grown ferals nor any of their would be spawn.  The ferals are specifically named and get nothing.  I mentioned the reason that they have self estranged for many years.

Semi O/T Chef's Life Insurance Health Tests

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Are in..  His liver enzymes are off the chart.  The high range number was 54.  His was 76.  At first he tried to wave it off (aka poo poo it).  His blood sugar was a bit on the high side as well.  But I think it scared him.   He's now drinking tea instead of knocking back hard liquor drink after drink nightly.  He's requesting healthy foods for dinner too.

I doubt this phase will last.   He goes just as long as he thinks he's out of the woods and then resumes his old bad habits again.   High functioning alcoholic with the all or nothing type personality.

Probably won't be able to get Life Insurance

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On Chef.  He has high BP and is taking meds for it (shockingly) after several drs told him he is gonna stroke out.  He also has an incredibly short fuse and is generally a negative person although he seems to go from deleriously happy to mercurial in zero seconds.

He was brutally honest with the medical interviewer who came over on how much he drinks.   She immediately followed the information with: "has a doctor or anyone else asked you to stop drinking alcohol?"

Life Insurance

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As a spin off to Esmod's estate planning post, as We get older we realize we are not immortal.  We recently had a neighbor down the street, a very nice and helpful man, diagnosed with esophageal cancer, which is usually a death sentence.  One of my county co workers died of it a few years back with virtually no symptoms.

And also Chef had a recent brush that could have been bad.  A garbage truck completely smashed his parked van but he was not in it.

So we finally got around to getting a term life policy on Chef.  

O/T I feel like Marge Simpson

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When Homer repeatedly is an embarrassment in public.    Took Chef to a concert recently which happened to be in Girhippoville as there is a very out of place casino venue in that rural country.  

We also had dinner at the restaurant there which I figured would be safe seeing the Gir and Pumpkinhead no longer work there.   Nope.  Prices were very high (even Chef noticed--he usually pays no attention to prices and just buys/orders)

Whose BM is this? (LONG)

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After less than 9 months I had to not renew with a tenant who I screened very carefully, late forties woman.  She got a great reference from 2 previous LLs back.  He lied--why I don't know as he wasn't her present landlord and wasn't trying to get her out.   Come to think of it, he did kind of sound like a used car salesman and I know he was the actual owner and not just somebody that the tenant put down to pose as the owner.  Maybe was banging her in the past.

Bad

Kitchen Wars Are Over VENT

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Chef proclaimed that he doesnt like food cooked in my brand new smoker anymore.   He prefers lighter fluid soaked charcoal even though we have a charcoal grill that has a propane tank ignition!!!

Claims all smoked food tastes the same!  From now on he's going back to over buying, over spending and wasting food! .  He doesnt like the way I portion meals, plan meals around what's on sale etc. 

Well good because I'm Nooming anyway so I can make small meals and watch my weight while he eats himself to death.

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