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Xmas defense of a sh*tty BM

So, FDH pays $950 a month in CS. BM is living with a friend and says she is working (PAY YOUR DAMN BILLS).

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Sad, but not sure why...

I don't post too much, usually it's "same sh!t, different day" at our house. But this is really bugging me.

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Update from Yesterday...

So, BM told FDH that she got the eviction notice (Thanks dumbass, your landlord called US first).

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Waiting sucks

So, the last two weekends, SS13 has "chosen" not to come. No skin off my back, that kid is a giant sh*t. Except....Last weekend, FDH and I schedule engagement and family pictures.

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I'm not sure what to do - Any Ideas please!

So, SD5 has been sick for at least 4 weeks. They all had a cold the last time they came visit 2 weeks ago, but they were on the mend. Well, SD5 has had a cough since then.

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Venting

So, haven't really gotten to spend any time with FDH lately. I'm working 7 days a week to pay my bills and I'm taking a class Saturdays. Just kind of sucks.

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All Kinds of Crap

So, I've been super busy with work (7 days a week for a while here!) But recently, the Skids situation with BM has been bad. It started when school started.

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Amazing Weekend!

So, BF and I discussed the kids not coming, he agreed it was a good idea because my mother was so stressed with this weekend, he didn't want to stress her out more.

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Oops....

So, am I a bad person?

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Crazy BM

BM cycles! Seriously, every 4-6 weeks she goes crazy and everything is wrong and it is mine or my BFs fault. She tells the kids horrible things about us and just makes life miserable for everyone.