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Amazing Weekend!

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So, BF and I discussed the kids not coming, he agreed it was a good idea because my mother was so stressed with this weekend, he didn't want to stress her out more. BM had her own plans with the kids anyway (totally clueless) and so she never said a word about it.

Now, for the big update...I'm Engaged! Another reason he didn't want the kids this weekend! I am so excited to be marrying this man. I know there is a LOT of baggage that comes with him, but by this time next year, I will officially be a step-parent.

Any suggestions on how to tell the kids? I think the girls will be excited (11, 8 and 5) but I'm pretty sure SS13 is not going to be, since I don't put up with his bad behavior.

As of right now, FDH (hee hee), is going to pick them up this weekend for his scheduled time and tell them on the 2 hour drive back to our place, without me. He can talk about it and they will tell him what they think and they don't have to worry about me.