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Stooping to Their Level

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So there are 4 skids.  Two boys 6 and 13. Two girls 8 and 12.  I generally get along with all of the them.  However, SD12 is not being very nice.  She has always been her mother's protector and I am not sure if that is what I am seeing or if this is age related or what. She likes to make "jokes" which are actually really nasty.  My SO will then not say anything - so we had a long talk that he better step up or there is going to be a huge problem.  However, she is still not nice to be around.  

Paying for Sports

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In mid April we were in court having child support and custody readjusted.  BM asked for an additional $200 per month towards sport fees as well as an increase of $500 in child support.  She already gets over $2800 a month.  The judge denied the upward deviation and kept child support the same.  We were anticipating that she would now say she cannot afford sports fees and ask for more money.  And yesterday it happened.

Seeking Advice

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This is my first blog... so bear with me.

I met my boyfriend about 3 years ago and was introduced to his 4 kids 2 years ago, just before we moved in together.  I have had a good relationship with the children for the most part.  They invite me to their events, ask to do things with, tell me they love me, etc.  Their mother flat out hates me and my boyfriend.  She goes out of her way to make our lives hard and this is definitely a case of parental alienation.  

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