After SD9 has been with her BM for most of the last 3 weeks, she has come home and asked that I attempt to become friendly with her Bm as her BM has requested that she would love for this to happen. So I told SD9, I will attempt but cannot make any guarentees that this will transpire. SD9 also states she wanted to once again play soccer but of course, BM has to agree to this as well as games are on some saturdays that she has SD9 (BM has her every other weekend, we have primary custody) Here is the email that I sent.

Hi BM,

so DH did the dishes I left in the sink. I thanked him and thought we moved on. Later we get in a fight about how I'm rude to ss15 and pick fights about the stupidest shit. I said that I don't appreciate having to clean up after them when they're here and by the time they are supposed to go home so i can chill out again ss15 decided to stay another week!!!!

After 13 years, DH and I are finally making great strides. Many of our issues are finally being resolved and the final piece of the puzzle is to separate our finances. We both feel that it is necessary to achieve the peace and harmony that we both crave.
For those of you that already keep your finances separate, what good advice can you give us? We understand that there are going to be some rough patches to work out, so a heads up on what to expect would be greatly appreciated.

Today we went to a funeral dh's uncle passed away. He had been battling cancer for a year. I left the funeral home feeling grateful. IM grateful for the family that I have.Brothers, aunts, uncles grandma, everyone! I love my little family and I know at times I get frustrated, but Im only human. It brought back memories of when my mother passed away 14 years ago. (SAME FUNERAL HOME) I love my life and wouldnt change a thing. Im going to make sure I stop and soak up all the little things in life. Never know when my day will come or anyones for that matter.

My husband and I are seeking termination of my BD6's biological father's rights. I know that the mere mention of termination ruffles some feathers, but I am a mother on a mission to save my little girl's life and I could really use some thoughts, feelings and opinions on what outsiders think of our reasons and evidence, and why one would, or would not, believe termination is what is best for our little girl.

Here is the history...

Do you think they can be beat if the one administrating is well qualified?

Reading other post tonight made me look back on my own blog ...
I think I am getting better and learning, albeit VERY SLOWLY, how to deal with BM and our whole situation. At this rate, by the time the children are in high school, theoretically I should be okay ... THEORETICALLY.
Have you ever read your old blogs and been proud of yourself for growing up or for gaining a skill or something that proves all this venting IS HEALTHY?

First, I'm feeling pissy today. We're FINALLY having birthday cake for Gibby. He turned 9 ten days ago, but due to work and family illness, today is the first chance we've all had to be together- us and grandparents. Princess has decided the party should be a last get together with her grandparents before she goes to college. She also has invited her boyfriend and 2 friends over. She did this without consulting her dad or me.

any ideas for gag gift or who has any great out door recipes (seriously out door ~~ on the boat with a grill)?

SO BM told my fiance out of the blue today that I'm not allowed to pick her son up from her apartment anymore. Random much? I haven't even gone to pick him up in like a month, the last time was when she was the one who wanted to talk in the parking lot about why I don't want her to come to my house. Does it bother you that much that I don't like you? Does it bother you that much that I stood up for myself instead of giving into you like everyone else does? I mean really now.