I'm vw_stepmom and I'm here to try to maintain some sanity in my life. I've been married 10 years to a wonderful man who has two daughters, 18 and 21. The 18 year-old moved in with us full-time about a year ago. I have a 24 year-old son who lives with his girlfriend. While I do maintain that DH is a good man and a good dad he is crappy at being an authority figure. He does not set boundaries and some times I think he doesn't know what discipline means. For the most part we have a great marriage, but in the beginning it was very rocky.