I'm in my early thirties and I have one child who is 12 and very mannerable. My problem is my boyfriend I love him so much but his head is all ifffed up because he has three children by a woman he was with for 12 years out of his life. His BM is a hot head and only about two lbs soaking wet. She's always texting him and addressing him the wrong way like she's down with the mob and most of the time I don't like the tone of it ~she's rude~. His BM wants him to do everything and he's a great father because he tries. She has no life no education no class and nowhere to live.