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Don't really know what to say or do.....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 05/30/2017 - 8:07am

So DH and I got into a fight last night....DH didn't know whether he has to pick up the skids on Thursday or Friday for the summer vacation with us and I told him that per the CO since it's not during the school year that he has to pick them up on Friday June 2nd. I was just trying to help but, I feel this is the last time that I insert myself in anything to do with that CO, his visitation or his kids. So he then asks me do you have a problem with my kids staying here extra days or them being over here period. I am thinking no dumbass that is not the problem!!

YSS behavior

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 05/23/2017 - 10:01am

So over the weekend DH and I had a huge argument about YSS and the way he behaves. Saturday we planned on going to eat somewhere. The whole time we are there YSS is trying to crawl underneath the table because he is "bored" and wants to leave. I know kids don't understand that the world doesn't revolve around them but, this kid has no regard for anyone else's feelings at all.

Increased Sex Drive

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Submitted by tankh21 on Fri, 05/19/2017 - 7:25am

My DH's sex drive has increased in the past couple of days. It went from nothing to I want sex everyday. I have no idea what is up with that but, I for one do not have a sex drive so this is really starting to drive me nuts. LOL Just thought I would start off with something different today on my blog. Have a great Friday StepTalk!

Update from field trip

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Submitted by tankh21 on Mon, 05/15/2017 - 10:43am

So I ended up going with OSS on his field trip of course he was calling BM every hour LOL. I noticed that SS is total isolates himself from the other kids. I asked him if he was going to play with his friends. He said I don't have any friends. After the field trip was over SS wanted to show me the inside of their house and I heard BM on the phone telling SS that I was welcome to come over to their house anytime. I am thinking it is really bizarre that BM is being this nice.

OSS school trip drama....

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Submitted by tankh21 on Thu, 05/11/2017 - 8:44am

OSS texts me last night asking me to go on this school trip with him to some amusement park. The first thing that I texted was is your mom ok with you asking me and me going with you? He said that is was fine. So DH texted BM last night and she told him that she was fine with me going. This is really out of the norm for BM to drama free about something so I am thinking three things she is being nice because she wants something, she is back on her medication for her bipolar disorder or she has to work and wants us to pay for everything because she doesn't have the money.

People's Patterns

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Submitted by tankh21 on Wed, 05/10/2017 - 11:33am

I am dumbfounded of some people's patterns that are just downright bullying and snarky. If you don't like someone or what someone has to say just don't say anything at all. I am still learning and am new at being a step parent therefore, I think others shouldn't make posters feel bad because they posted something someone doesn't like or doesn't agree with. There is a way to word things that won't sound harsh to a person. Bullies are just unhappy with their own lives so they have to target other people to make themselves feel better. Some people just cannot help themselves.

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