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Does anyone else have feelings of resentment that BM lives in a rich neighborhood, gets lavish things but complains how her life is so horrible while other people are really struggling to make ends meet? I try to take whatever struggle life puts in front of me and just deal with it. I know it doesn't make it right but the only time I take my aggression out on other people is when they are purposely trying to cause problems in my life. Is that wrong of me?

Not surprised....

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Skids didn't wish me Happy Mother's Day yesterday. I didn't really bother me until someone asked me this morning at work if they wished me Happy Mother's Day. This just makes my disengagement to them so much easier. I really don't think they give a damn about me at all! At least I have control of my household and BM and the skids don't. Oh well I guess we aren't considered real mother's to skids?!

BM thinks she can call the shots in our house once again!!

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I haven't blogged in awhile. DH has been laid off from his job so we have been dealing with that. He has an interview today so please pray for us! Any way, so last night was DH's usual Thursday night to pick up the skids well BM has been texting him threatening messages right after he picks them up for the last two Thursday nights. The first one was because he wasn't answering her phone calls mind you he was at work and it was non-emergency so she said that she was taking him back to court when he had asked her to text or email him for anything non-emergency regarding the skids.

Questions....

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So I am trying to look up modifications to child support orders. My DH has been laid off so does have to notify BM or just the AG? Also does he have to notify her where he is working when he gets a new job. We are in Texas. All of the information I have found is vague.

Insurance and providing documentation...

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So BM took one skid to the doctor wouldn't tell DH what it was for however, since the skids are on my medical insurance so I can see the claims. I am guessing that is why BM didn't tell DH what she was taking SS to the doctor for. The CO states that DH is responsible for 50% of all medical expenses however the incurred party has 30 days to provide any bills, receipts, statements etc. My question is if BM doesn't supply any kind of documentation within 30 days is DH still required to pay?

DH thinks SS is a sociopath....

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DH thinks that OSS is a sociopath just like BM. He told me this yesterday on our way to go to watch SS's last band concert. When I first moved in with DH SS used to tell me all sorts of crap. I figured it was to try to get me to leave and I was right. He used to tell me that DH cheated on BM and that he never paid a dime in CS until BM took him to court. He also used to say how much he hated DH to everyone that would pay attention to him. I just didn't pay attention well now he is doing the opposite and DH thinks it's because he wants something.

It never will stop I guess....

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So I posted on my blog yesterday about BM not giving DH a 24 hour notice in advance about this band intro thing that YSS was supposed to go to. So DH goes to pick up the skids at his usual 6:00 pm time and BM calls him he didn't answer the phone. She then sends him a nasty text and tells him that his lack of communication about the children's school activities, medical appointments etc is childish and that she now wants court-appointed text messages. I assume what she was referring to is Family Wizard. REALLY BM!! I mean where does she get off!

DH doesn't like me trying to disengage

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So yesterday DH receives a text from BM that SS has band intro at 6:45 pm. She is sending the text giving him a less than 24 hour notice. DH tells me about the text I just say ok and walk off. He then comes into the bedroom where I am and tells me that BM isn't following the CO again. I said well she is your ex and your problem not mine I am trying not to care anymore about your drama with her. He said well I think that she is doing all of these things on purpose so I will take her back to court.

This weekend.....

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When does not following the CO end I mean BM was the one that took my DH to court in order to get CS and have a CO set in place and now she does not want to follow it however my DH has to follow it. BM thinks that my DH is just a sperm donor and ATM machine. I know my DH isn't the perfect parent and has issues with disciplining his kids however, he is not a doormat for BM either.

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