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My husband and I dropped my step kids off today at their grandmothers house. We got to her house and he leaned back for them to kiss him and they said bye and love you. He pointed at me for them to say it but I waved at them and said bye and I loved them. I froze anxiously because I felt like I had to do what their dad did. I’ve been in their life for 3 years. When they hug me, I put my arms around them back. Last night my step daughter leaned on me and said goodnight. I put my arms around her and said goodnight and I love her. Is it bad of me to let them initiate affection first?

I don’t know how to feel

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So I had paused Hulu and was about to take a bubble bath. I came back in the living room and saw that my husbands pictures were the screensaver for Amazon echo from his account. They were on random so I didn’t know the pictures were on there. One pops up from July of 2020 and it’s a screenshot pic of his ex wife and his daughter asleep in bed from 6 years ago. The pic from 6 years ago, he screenshot it in 2020. It was mainly on his ex wife because his daughter had his back turned and you could see his ex wife in plan view. We got married may 2019.

Would this bother you?

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So I had paused Hulu and was about to take a bubble bath. I came back in the living room and saw that my husbands pictures were the screensaver for Amazon echo from his account. They were on random so I didn’t know the pictures were on there. One pops up from July of 2020 and it’s a screenshot pic of his ex wife and his daughter asleep in bed from 6 years ago. The pic from 6 years ago, he screenshot it in 2020. It was mainly on his ex wife because his daughter had his back turned and you could see his ex wife in plan view. We got married may 2019.

This is stressing me out

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Okay I’m stressing right now. So my husband, his ex, me, and her husband all get along and coparent. Today she took him to work because I couldn’t bring him because I'm at work. My step sons ball game is tonight and he asked me if it’s okay if she takes him to the game because I’ll still be at work. Why does that bother me?? He is disabled so he cannot drive. 

Two questions

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My husband, BM and her husband were all talking the other day. BM's husband was telling something about  what BM would eat and my husband said that she has never eaten that before. It kinda bothered me because how does he know what she has eaten? Would this bother you if you all got along with each other? 
 

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