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How can I be more understanding?

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So me and my husband coparent great with my husbands ex wife and her husband. Her and her husband have a one year old together that me and my husband have watched. Some days it’s with just him and some days it’s both of us. When we are together it seems like she wants to be around him more than me. She is around me a lot though and has wanted me to pick her up but it’s more with him I feel like. Like I was waving at her and she looked at my husband and waved at him. She waves at me some too but not like him. She’s seen him with the kids and how he is with them.

About family pictures

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So the last time my family and I got a family picture was one in July and one in September. Not a professional one, but a good family pic. I was thinking about getting fall family pictures done but it is so expensive. If I got a good family picture done this year should I just wait?

What could this mean?

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So I was leaving for work and I was telling my step kids bye and I love them and none of them said anything back, but 5 minutes before then my SD7 was telling me how they should have a bring your own kid to work day and that she wanted to be with me working. The weekend before she left a sticky note that said I love you to me. They come on the weekends so I don’t see them a lot. Does this mean she still loves me even though she didn’t say it back? Sometimes she does though.

Is this normal convo?

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Is this just normal convo?

So I have two step kids and my husband and his ex along with her husband and me all coparent together. My husband currently got a new phone and I was helping him transfer everything over to his new one. I had saw his text from his ex wife telling her about a day where I had to go into work and I didn’t know it until last minute so I was late. I feel like he really didn’t have to tell her that. Is that wrong? Or is it weird? Or just normal convo?

What should I do?

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Hi! So I have 2 stepkids, ages 5 and 8. My stepson (5) wanted to do a tiktok video with me and so I did with him. Should I ask my stepdaughter (8) if she wants to do one also since I did with him? She is at school and I only see her on the weekends. Or should I not ask and wait until she does? I know there is a big age difference between 5 and 8. The only reason why I did with my stepson is because he asked me if I wanted to. 

What should I do?

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Hi! So I have 2 stepkids, ages 5 and 8. My stepson (5) wanted to do a tiktok video with me and so I did with him. Should I ask my stepdaughter (8) if she wants to do one also since I did with him? She is at school and I only see her on the weekends. Or should I not ask and wait until she does? I know there is a big age difference between 5 and 8. The only reason why I did with my stepson is because he asked me if I wanted to. 

What do you think?

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So recently we got a new neighbor. She is pretty, single and has a teen. She introduced herself to my step kids and my husband. I was working. He did mention me while talking to her. I asked him what her name was and he told me but couldn't really pronounce the last name. I looked her up on Facebook and he said he had added her that day. That really bothered me because I hadn't even met her yet. He told me he would never do anything like that (have affair). I think her ex was helping her move in the other night. Anyway, should it bother me that he added her on Facebook?

What are your thoughts?

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My husband and I dropped my step kids off today at their grandmothers house. We got to her house and he leaned back for them to kiss him and they said bye and love you. He pointed at me for them to say it but I waved at them and said bye and I loved them. I froze anxiously because I felt like I had to do what their dad did. I’ve been in their life for 3 years. When they hug me, I put my arms around them back. Last night my step daughter leaned on me and said goodnight. I put my arms around her and said goodnight and I love her. Is it bad of me to let them initiate affection first?

I don’t know how to feel

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So I had paused Hulu and was about to take a bubble bath. I came back in the living room and saw that my husbands pictures were the screensaver for Amazon echo from his account. They were on random so I didn’t know the pictures were on there. One pops up from July of 2020 and it’s a screenshot pic of his ex wife and his daughter asleep in bed from 6 years ago. The pic from 6 years ago, he screenshot it in 2020. It was mainly on his ex wife because his daughter had his back turned and you could see his ex wife in plan view. We got married may 2019.

Would this bother you?

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So I had paused Hulu and was about to take a bubble bath. I came back in the living room and saw that my husbands pictures were the screensaver for Amazon echo from his account. They were on random so I didn’t know the pictures were on there. One pops up from July of 2020 and it’s a screenshot pic of his ex wife and his daughter asleep in bed from 6 years ago. The pic from 6 years ago, he screenshot it in 2020. It was mainly on his ex wife because his daughter had his back turned and you could see his ex wife in plan view. We got married may 2019.

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