Ss14 had bus court ordered call tonight during the time we were having afamily memorial.

We suggested that ss14 call bm early so as not to intrude on our family events.

He tried. She told him to call him at the designated time
He called her at the designated time. He told us she was drunk, talked about the police and didn't really get a chance to talk with her.

I spoke with him later. He said he was used it it. That that's how she always acts.

We got a call from the detective today asking for specifics on her breaking the order. He aske DH to come down to show him his phone.

He took the phone, downloaded the text log and said it all looked pretty clear cut to him. He stated that the reason nothing happened in the past is because BM could argue that the texting was in regards to SS. This time, it clearly had nothing to do with SS or visitation and was clearly outside of her court ordered time to call.

After bm's breakdown yesterday I took the liberty to text her telling her not to contact my husband and letting her know that I'd be informing her gf about all of her crap. Her response two hours later? After her gf arrived home from work?

"Leave me alone". Three times!!!

Today I texted the girlfriend all of the screen shots of her craziness at about noon. Texted to all three numbers. One is def herd, the others were extras we found online associated with her name.

No response.

No bounce back.

BM called DH several times in a row from a blocked number and hung up and dialed right back. She then unblocked her number so he answered.

This is what I heard:

No, I'm not recording you. What? What? I cant hear you.... Now I can hear you.

click

She's clearly lost her rocker. She knows DH has a RO against her (which is why she asked if she was being recorded). She told DH that she missed him and he could tell she was crying. He just hung up on her.