BM is Crazy ... And other thoughtless ramblings
I think. Wait. I know. BM has gone full on crazy today.
Not only did she start the day off by calling dh and telling him she misses him, then texting that she was horny, and following that up with a"sorry. Wrong person".
But it got better.
In the afternoon, she texted a good 10 texts stating that she had enough issues, she has a new phone number not to tell "her" (her girlfriend she lives with), that she can't talk again till morning because her gf was coming home. And on and on.
She then texted dh again with a "sorry. Wrong person. Please don't tell".
Dh had filed the online police report. Twice but today it got rejected stating that he should call it I'm. My thought was that she was so completely nuts today that they were upgrading him to a live officer.
The officer came out, took dh's statement and asked several times if dh wanted her arrested. Dh said yes.
We will see. Bm lives in another county. One where the police have better things to do, but hopefully something will come of this
This officer was actually very encouraging, telling dh that he should call the police and press charges when she breaks the order.
Fingers crossed. I know they've called her in the past. It will be nice for them to cruelly arrest her for her craziness.
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Is she on any meds? She
Is she on any meds?
She sounds like she has lost it today for sure.
I mean I know she's always been loopy - but this is a step up again isn't it?
Just when you think it's safe to go back in the water LOL
I think she is on crank or
I think she is on crank or something like that. The last time she acted frantic and nuts like this was when DH originally requested the RO. She'd send dozens, maybe even hundreds of texts. She also went from about 200 lbs to 140 lbs in about a month.
She SHOULD be on meds, clearly.
She smokes pot to deal with life.
That's why I was so happy
That's why I was so happy that DH had the police out and the officer that was here made us feel like we were totally within our rights to request the police handle it.
She was clearly going over the edge, having a bad day and not thinking clearly.
I think my husband will need
I think my husband will need to upgrade his phone so that he can block her.
She should only be calling him two times a week at a scheduled time to speak with SS. Other than that there is to be no contact of any kind unless it is about "court ordered visitation".
I think blocking her, providing his email (DHLovesStepOFF@FUbm.com) and letting her know that she could leave a message if there was an emergency or she was not able to fullfill her visitation.
That will relieve the stress that comes along with BM.
I will do back flips if she
I will do back flips if she gets arrested.
Then in a few weeks when the judge orders her to pay child support, I'll do a cartwheel.
Of course its your
Of course its your fault.
Just like BM tells SS that it is Step Off and DH's fault that she can't spend more time with him or show up to his graduation because we'll call the cops on him and she'll go to jail.
(not that she's attended anything of his in the past, inlcuding his last graduation, or that she's ever taken him for extra time).
Yes, of course. It is OUR fault that you are bat shit crazy, break the law and have court orders restricting your behavior and when you break the order, the police get mad...
totally our fault.