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Rough Morning

Well it all started last night. After reading lots of posts over the past week and listening to all the advice we all give, I decided I needed a night out. Well, I guess SD was not happy about it. Apparently she was acting out all evening and FH decided to take her to bed early. Only, into our bed. So, when I got home, at 8:30 (EARLY) they were both sleeping. My turn for the couch, which was actually fine with me, because I just got the "Step Monsters" book and I was excited to start reading. Anyway, FH had to go to work at 3am this morning, which left me to get SD ready for school.

I was trying..

So, I was with SD all day Saturday because FH had to work all day, which was fine with me. I took her shopping and to get her nails done. Her bangs are too long, they are all in her eyes, so I thought hmm, maybe I should ask BM if I can take her to get her bangs trimmed. FH and BM had a huge fight a few weeks ago because BM wanted to cut SD's hair real short. She has real long pretty hair. So anyway.. I thought, it would be best to ask first. So I texted her about it. She politely said NO, please dont. Honestly, shes the BM so I cant second guess her or even ask why.

New to this

Hi.. I am a 'soon to be sm' trying to find a place to get some advice from people in the same situation. Things have been getting pretty bad lately between my fiance and his ex. (sorry if i dont have all the abreviations right yet..) Anyway, they have legal joint custody and they are just beginning the cs stage. I get along very well with my soon to be sd..

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