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Bitch got me again!!

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So SIL did it again. My last blog was about my SIL not asking my bio children (Dh and I have no bio children together) to be in family photos. Well, an other incident with pictures again...We went to a graduation party for DH's niece this past weekend.. (Not this SIL's daughter an other SIL) But the same SIL who do not ask my children to be in family photos was going around the party taking pictures of everyone with her cell phone. She took a couple of pictures of my children. Then a couple pictures of myself and my children.

Blood is not always thicker than water.

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Boom! There it is! SIL admitted my children where not asked to be in family photos because "they are not your blood kids". DH and I have been together for 11yrs. He raised my youngest since she was 3yrs old. To her DH is her daddy. To me there is no separation of family, blood or not. That's just the way I was raised.

Hiding behind Twitter.

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Thought we had a good Father's day, until I saw SD22 Twitter. She tweeted "Why does this girl have on so much eye makeup? She looks like a hoe. It's not Halloween" I know she was talking about my daughter. My daughter is going to school to be makeup artist and loves doing her makeup. While SD22 was here she was talking with us just fine. But at the same time Twitting this about my daughter!! I am so mad right now. I know its just jealousy. SD is very over weight and my daughter is slim. I am so mad, I want to say something to her about it.

O/T Damn if you, Damn if you don't

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How do any of you feel about this situation. My husband will be going to MIL's by himself this Christmas, cause I am done being treated like trash. All my SIL's treat me like crap. ALL 7 of them! Oh I am invited but I will get some phony hugs and smiles from some. But the others will roll their eyes and walk pass me like I am invisible. And if DH doesn't go, then I become the bad guy and they will say "he doesn't come to gatherings because of her!"

If you want to take me out for my Birthday it's on my conditions

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havnt seen or talk to SD17 since last Christmas so DH wants to see her for her birthday tomorrow. He text her: DH " Hi let's do dinner for your birthday" so of course for a free dinner and a card with money she accepts. "Yes,but just you and Mary (me)" meaning she doesnt want my daughers to go. DH "Just me and Mary? Why is there a problem" SD" Uh yeah you are my dad, you are my family not them and Mary has to go everywhere you go, I shouldnt have to spend my birthday with them if i dont want to and I honestly dont want to!"

Might be making a big mistake...some advice please!

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For some past refence please read my blog "NOW WHAT, WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE" DH wants to contact 2 of his children, he hasnt seen or talk to all 5 in about a year their birthdays are 1 day apart next week. SD will be 18 and SS will be 15. If they even agree to see him, he wants to put "all cards on the table" DH wants to give his side of the story. After 9 yrs of BM trashing him. BM has never bite her tongue. Sharing all information with this kids.Telling them he cheated on her, hung out in clubs and just walked out on them. At one time he had no job and couldnt pay child support.

EWWW are you serious????

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:sick: I cant stand that my SIL's all over the age of 40 call each other "sissy"!!!!. I of course do not get along with all 8 of my SIL's...after trying for many years, I finally have disengaged from the In-laws. They have been so rude to me and have made it clear I will never be accepted as "family" I was just being nosy on Facebook, so I see they had a night out. One sister posted pics. And the pics had ..."My sissy jane" "My beautiful cousin Betty" "my beautiful neices Mary and Jane". Why must they "title" everyone???

NOW WHAT? WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE?

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EMAIL TO SS17: this is dad i was told you are wrting stuff about me on your Twitter not contacting you or calling you. first of all your mothers extact words were STAY THE FUCK AWAY NO WONDER WHY THEY DONT WANT YOU AROUND. So i thought thats how you guys felt. when i call/text before i would be ignored i cant force you to come visit.i really do miss you but everytime i think of contacting you i think of what your mother said. my number is still the same. and all of you have changed your numbers.i dont have your number. if u really want to be in contact with me you know you can call me

YOUR NOTHING YOUR FEELINGS DONT MATTER

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Why is it okay to hurt my feelings because in-laws dont want to hurt SK's feelings. Some of my in-law's did not come to my daughter's graduation party. She is not DH's bio-daughter. DH has been in our lifes for 9 years. And the one sister-in-law who did come. I noticed did not post it on Facebook. SIL is always posting on FB. Everywhere she goes and post pics all the time. But I noticed the night of my daughters grad party not one thing mentioned that she was at the party or not even one pic.

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