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SMto5's picture

Thought we had a good Father's day, until I saw SD22 Twitter. She tweeted "Why does this girl have on so much eye makeup? She looks like a hoe. It's not Halloween" I know she was talking about my daughter. My daughter is going to school to be makeup artist and loves doing her makeup. While SD22 was here she was talking with us just fine. But at the same time Twitting this about my daughter!! I am so mad right now. I know its just jealousy. SD is very over weight and my daughter is slim. I am so mad, I want to say something to her about it.

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IslandGal's picture

What a total jealous bitch!! She's showing her true colors and she is nasty!! Fancy being so damned spiteful..yuck...wish I could slap her head to get her to act her goddamn age!

I'd pull her up on it and ask her exactly what the hell she was trying to prove! Did your DH see it? What was his view?

SMto5's picture

Yeah I showed DH, he says he is going to ask her about it. But I know we will get the same bull we always get "its my twitter I can say what I want" or SD will lie and say " I wasn't talking about her"

IslandGal's picture

That excuse is just as lame as she is. Ok - depending on what DH sez - try to be with him when he talks to her and let her know that YOU KNOW she's talkin' about your daughter, no matter wht bulshit she comes up with, and that she needs to get over her petty issues. Tell her if she can't say anything nice -then say nothing at all. Flamin' twit. BTW, if she sticks to her guns and insists it's not about your daughter then ask her to show you the pic she was referring to.

Don't let her get away with this type of behaviour.

Jelly2's picture

It's hard to deal when you've got one daughter who is naturally beautiful and slim and a SD who is overweight and frumpy-believe me I know.
I don't have any advice. Personally, I have tried taking my SD to the gym, asked her to go on walks with me and swimming. I have cut down on the starches served at dinner time.
She says she'd rather exercise alone...makes up for the starches by filling up on cookies and such-stuff that I would really rather not have in the in the first place.
I tried, didn't work, I quit.
Actually sd12 has told me her mother KEEPS a cabinet full of snacks at her house and SD "eats what she wants when she wants". I think her mom is one of those mothers who cant stand it that their daughter is prettier than herself, so the only way the bm can be prettier is to keep sd fat. Sad really.
I'm discouraged that in your case the jealousy rages on even into their 20s. Somehow I thought this issue would magically dissolve someday. Great.

Anon2009's picture

How old is your daughter? If both she and sd are adults they need to sort that out for themselves.

Don't look at SDs twitter. Don't look at any of your DHs relatives social media accounts. Period.

SMto5's picture

My daughter is 19. I haven't even told my daughter about this, not sure if I will. Waiting to see what SD says to DH about this.

Most Evil's picture

If she says it on a public venue like that, you have every right to comment back.

There are some witches at work that I slam back now every time they talk ugly to me, and guess what . . . They are shutting their traps.

Embarrass her, teach her not to ever disrespect you or dd or it is gonna hurt!

Haters gonna hate! Sad

SMto5's picture

I think she doesn't know what to say. DH called her and texted her, she won't answer her phone. So he sent a screen shot of her Tweet and asked her what is this about??

SMto5's picture

hahaha }:)