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What ‘is’ appropriate behaviour/contact between my bf and his ex?

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hi all.. Thankyou so much for all your last replies to my first post I’ve ever written on here. I so wish I had written it years ago instead of feeling like I was alone/mad with what I felt was ok and what isn’t. (My bfs ex inviting him to cinema with her and their kids, asking him to do shopping on way to drop off kids bikes etc). So.. and sorry for another question.. and I kind of know the answer myself but... what is appropriate contact?

Uncomfortable about partners relationship with his ex

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hi.. I’m just wondering if anyone else feels it’s not appropriate for their partners ex girlfriend to invite him to the cinema with her and their kids, ask him to do shopping for her on way to dropping kids bikes off etc? Or am I just mad? We’ve been together four years and it’s like she’s his wife or something and im his mistress?! Like she’s done ever present thing taking my partners attention to her thanks x