We've been in MIL town thousands of miles from home for a week arranging her move to a nursing home. SHe hasn't heard from any skids in years. my kids call and send cards and letters and little gifts every few weeks or so. her own blood grandkids do nothing, they don't even acknowledge the money she's given them over the years for college and home downpayments. when FIL passed, the skids barely could find time to come to his funeral and only did it after i begged them and paid all their way. my kids, all took off work and got themselves to their stepgfathers town so they could be here.

All cs was satisfied 3 yrs ago.
Alimony was satisfied in June.

BM filed motion to extend alimony on the grounds she's a lazy ass waste of A LOT of skin and a soul. And she has a back ache. And she spent over $900K the past 10 years and has nothing to show for it.

We filed, 'oh no you don't' response (just says we disagree)

According to her motion, she and we have to file financial affidavitds with the court tomorrow.
We won't.
I'm sure she won't.

DH hasn't heard from baby mommas boy age 21 since January. Last mo he rec'd a communication from assidiots alimony atty telling dh that skid needs some money for college tuition. we refuse to respond. First of all, we're not spending money on an atty to respond to something so absurd. Second the court order is clear as glass because bm wrote it in - if any kid disparages, disrespects, ignores or refuses to acknowledge his parent, said child gets no college help. WE don't even know where he lives or if he's even in school.

I know we all have whacked out, manipulative, lieng, narcisistic BMs who will do anything to 'may him pay' and lives only to prove just how much they hate their ex... even to the extent of damaging their own relationships with kids...