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*for a friend* Keeping a wedding quiet

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y girlfiend has a question and I haven't found another forum on which to ask. I was thinking this Is a pretty bright bunch, so here goes -- they want to get married somewhere in the US but don't know how to keep it out of the local paper so parents won't find out. They plan a destination wedding in the spring but need a jop wedding now for financial reasons. can they do it>

Co-habitation

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So the point of the co stating alimony ends if she cohabitates is due to the second income in the home helping to pay her bills, right... Smile

See where I'm going? If adult ss, college grad with a ft job, chooses to live with momma, that's a second income paying her bills ...

thus alimony should be no more??? anyone ever see this angle working ?

The most evil spawn in the world

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Grandmother passed away from a short illness last week. skids have not even acknowledged this, nor sent a text, card or fb post saying hey sorry. it's very obvious, has been in every paper, online, fb, etc. and we know they spy on us and so does bm so there's no chance they just didn't know... until 18mo ago there was a relationship and some good times, a little love here and there until their bm told them not to... what a pity the hatred that can be bred into ADULT children by an evil hateful bm. My heart hurts for what they'll someday regret. skids are 22, 25, 29

Pay It Forward

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I come from a poor (economically) but rich (in love) family and grew up appreciating everything I had. I've worked my ass off my entire life and have had some great opportunities and success. I try as often as I can to 'Pay it Forward.' I buy lunch for the people behind me in line or donate anonomously to funeral funds or benefits. I've given some distant relatives money when they were down on their luck and couldn't do Christmas for their kids etc. But I don't feel like I've really made that much of a difference, and that's really the point, right? It makes my heart happy.

StepAside - Perspective

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Somehow I've run across several posts from you today, StepAside that have really brought a lot of perspective and clarity. I've always enjoyed your posts and appreciate the humor, honesty and good advice, but today I've really been struck at just how much your experience with your SM is just exactly my situation. You've always said it but something in the way I interpreted your posts today made it sink in. So, thank you. Thank you for explaining it again Smile

*EDITED* Blocked Number message? Let's create them

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What are some messages you'd like to see returned to the TEXTOR when a TEXTEE has blocked their number?

Something like -
"The number you have texted has blocked your sorry ass forever" ?
Sorry Bitch, This phone won't accept your drivel any longer.
The owner of this line has one thing to say to you "FUCK OFF"

more more??!

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