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Submitted by shielded2009 on Tue, 09/20/2011 - 10:32pm

I've never met BM...

I have no desire...I've never seen the point and she's always been a non issue in my life...

DH and I have been together for 5 years.

When we first got together, he warned me that she tended to fly off the handle whenever he'd introduce his girl friends to her when they met SD...She's gone off on one or two...For no reason...Merely upon meeting them...

REALLY? Welp...I guess she doesn't get the privilege of meeting me, huh? I will NOT be subjecting myself to that Reality Show in the making...

Facebook is not the devil...People are...

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Submitted by shielded2009 on Sun, 09/18/2011 - 9:15pm

I got free passes to the zoo this weekend, so I took DS. I posted the cutest picture of him petting a goat on Facebook...

My SIL posts this rant about me on FB talking about how I treat SD differently because I didn't take her to the zoo, also. She posted that she WANTS me to read it so that I know that I'm wrong...and she WANTS me to say something because her focus is her niece that she is so close to and feels so sorry for...and her "question" to me is if I know what it feels like to be a step child and be rejected...

It's not my problem...

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Submitted by shielded2009 on Fri, 08/26/2011 - 3:08pm

I refuse to feel bad that I have a close family and DH doesn't.
I refuse to feel bad that my family has traditions and DH's doesn't.
I also refuse to feel bad that I don't include SD in those activities and plans when HIS family (who all live either in the city or 3 hours away, while mine live 2000 miles away)don't do anything and mine does...
I don't feel bad that because of her behavior, I wont subject my family to her...
I don't feel bad that because of her behavior, even DH doesn't take her anywhere...

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